The College of Mental Health Counseling at www.collegemhc.com offers training to prepare the general public for entry to the counseling profession. This free download is a small sample of what is available.
Mar 30, 2011 – Depression and anxiety are perhaps the most common challenges faced by people in modern society. Many individuals are unaware of the sources and causes of their depression and stress.
This new informational sample offered free by the College, provides practical ways of identifying and changing both the distant and immediate causes of depression and anxiety.
Human beings are complicated, and while there is a wide variety of causes of depression, including biological and psychological factors, the most common source of depression is from childhood experiences that have shaped one's thoughts and attitudes about self, about others, and about one's circumstances. Childhood emotional or physical abuse and abandonment are often seen in individuals who experience chronic or recurring depression.
Depression can be recognized by low mood, feeling down or blue, crying, low energy, loss of interest in usual pleasurable activities, and changes in appretite and sleeping patterns. People who are depressed, male, over 50 years of age, living alone, divorced and unemployed are at the highest risk for committing suicide. Knowing how to talk to someone who is depressed and suicidal, could save his or her life.
Tuesday, April 5, 2011
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
NEW Free Counseling Online for Life Releases Client Comments
Mar 16, 2011 – The value of this new online counseling program is revealed in the numerous comments of clients who have received help worldwide.
The counseling model is solution-focused which provides immediate help for problems ranging from issues in marriage and relationships, depression, coping with loss, addiction, and much more.
An online bookstore provides specific titles arranged in categories for easy and quick review.
The client is asked to complete an in-depth history and assessment questionnaire called the Life Story. Then a reply is provided by the professional counselor. All information is kept strictly confidential.
After this initial one-time submission, the client is eligible to receive free counseling for life as needed. The email exchange format allows easy and quick replies from the counselor.
The counseling model is solution-focused which provides immediate help for problems ranging from issues in marriage and relationships, depression, coping with loss, addiction, and much more.
An online bookstore provides specific titles arranged in categories for easy and quick review.
The client is asked to complete an in-depth history and assessment questionnaire called the Life Story. Then a reply is provided by the professional counselor. All information is kept strictly confidential.
After this initial one-time submission, the client is eligible to receive free counseling for life as needed. The email exchange format allows easy and quick replies from the counselor.
Sunday, March 13, 2011
Faster Than Marriage Counseling
mOdels ANd Experience
What I offer is so much faster and more effective than traditional marriage counseling. I don't care if you've heard the words, "I'm not in love with you anymore," or "I don't feel the same way about you," or "I need some space." I am here to tell you that feelings CAN change.
If both of you were in love in the beginning, I know that I can get you to feel like that again, no matter what your mate has said or how disconnected you are right now.
Here is my promise to you. No matter what your situation is, or what you are going through, I can help you.
There are many so called "experts" on the internet who go on and on about all the results you'll get with their downloadable books or CD programs. Wouldn't you think that if it was really good, they would want you to listen or watch an excerpt of it?
Their hope is that if they can provide you with enough hype on the page, you won't care that you can't sample their product or have a way to get in touch with them.
Many marriage counselors don't tell you a thing about themselves because they are either not married or have been divorced several times. They are giving marriage counseling advice to others when they can't even make their own lives work.
I have been happily married to the same man for 38 years and have 3 grown children. There is nothing that I will teach you that I haven't done or said myself. I live and breathe what I teach. There is no one on this planet that has saved more marriages than I have.
On this site you can listen to excerpts of my work so that you can feel comfortable knowing that you will never find anything else that is even a close second to what I have to offer. You can click GO right now and watch my TV interview. That way you will know in your heart why you found this site.
Forget Marriage Counseling
In the Success Stories section you can read in detail about men and women who were having serious marriage problems, many ready to separate, others on the verge of divorce, and today are more in love than they ever thought possible.
As unbelievable as these stories sound, not one of these couples achieved these results through marriage counseling. You too can learn exactly what to say and do to change the way your mate feels immediately!
I've been quoted in USA TODAY, The New York Times, People, Family Circle, Cosmopolitan and Redbook about my alternative techniques to marriage counseling.
I have appeared on all the major talk shows, including Oprah many times, as well as, The Today Show and Barbara Walter's "The View." Trust me, you don't get on these shows multiple times without having something valuable to say.
The truth is, if my programs don't work for you, NOTHING else will! I know that sounds arrogant but there are hundreds of thousands of people that will back that up. Over 1 million programs have been sold and Marriage Counselors, Psychologists and Clergy have recommended my programs to their clients for years. Why? BECAUSE THEY REALLY DO WORK.
Here are just a few quotes from people that have been helped by my programs. For more examples, click here.
My husband's suitcase was packed when I saw you on TV. He told me that he no longer loved me and was moving out. I was devastated when I found out he was having an affair. Since he refused marriage counseling I had nowhere to turn. You taught me how to fight for my marriage and win my husband back. You were truly the answer to all my prayers. We are now the envy of everyone we know and there is not a doubt in my mind that we will grow old together. It was truly a miracle! Thank you. - Sarah C.
My wife and I had been going to marriage counseling for 6 months when I saw you interviewed on TV. My wife was sure that she no longer loved me and marriage counseling was not changing her mind. You were my last hope and boy did you come through! You made her realize that deep down she really did love me. To look at us now, no one would believe that we almost called it quits. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. - Jack N.
Easier Than Marriage Counseling
My program is EASY, FUN, ENTERTAINING and the best investment you will ever make. It is available in a beautiful boxed CD set or you can download it immediately for your iPod or MP3 player.
If you're a woman, you deserve to have a man who loves you with all his heart and soul. Light His Fire for women, which is more effective than marriage counseling, is guaranteed to make that happen.
If you're a man, you deserve to have a woman who loves you with all her heart and soul. Light Her Fire for men, which is also more effective than marriage counseling, is guaranteed to make that happen.
Keep in mind that your mate doesn't have to do a thing. You can get started right away with your own program and they'll start responding to the "new" you.
เร็วกว่าการให้คำปรึกษาการสมรส
สิ่งที่ฉันเสนอเพื่อให้รวดเร็วยิ่งขึ้นและมีประสิทธิภาพมากกว่าการให้คำปรึกษาการแต่งงานแบบดั้งเดิม ฉันไม่ดูแลถ้าคุณเคยได้ยินคำว่า"ฉันไม่ได้รักคุณอีกต่อไป"หรือ"ฉันไม่รู้สึกเช่นเดียวกับคุณ"หรือ"ฉันต้องมีพื้นที่ว่างบาง. ฉันอยู่ที่นี่จะบอกว่าสามารถเปลี่ยนความรู้สึก
หากทั้งสองท่านอยู่ในความรักในตอนแรก, ฉันรู้ว่าฉันสามารถช่วยให้คุณรู้สึกอย่างนั้นอีกครั้งไม่ว่าสิ่งที่คู่ของคุณมีการพูดหรือวิธีการตัดการเชื่อมต่อคุณได้ในขณะนี้
นี่คือสัญญาของฉันกับคุณ ไม่ว่าสถานการณ์ของคุณคืออะไรหรือสิ่งที่คุณจะผ่านมีอะไรให้ช่วยคุณ
มีจำนวนมากเรียกว่า"ผู้เชี่ยวชาญ"บนอินเทอร์เน็ตที่ไปและในทุกเกี่ยวกับผลลัพธ์ที่คุณจะได้รับกับหนังสือของพวกเขาหรือดาวน์โหลดโปรแกรมซีดีได้ คุณจะไม่คิดว่าถ้ามันเป็นที่ดีมาก ๆ พวกเขาจะต้องการให้คุณฟังหรือดูข้อความที่ตัดตอนมาของมัน?
ความหวังของพวกเขาคือว่าหากพวกเขาสามารถให้คุณมี hype เพียงพอในหน้าคุณจะไม่สนใจว่าคุณจะไม่สามารถตัวอย่างผลิตภัณฑ์ของตนหรือมีวิธีการได้รับการติดต่อกับพวกเขา
ให้คำปรึกษาการแต่งงานจำนวนมากไม่ได้บอกคุณสิ่งที่เกี่ยวกับตัวเองเพราะพวกเขาเป็นอย่างใดอย่างหนึ่งไม่ได้จดทะเบียนสมรสหรือได้รับการหย่าร้างกันหลายครั้ง พวกเขาจะให้คำแนะนำในการให้คำปรึกษาแต่งงานกับคนอื่นเมื่อพวกเขาไม่สามารถแม้แต่จะทำให้ชีวิตการทำงานของตัวเอง
ฉันได้รับการแต่งงานอย่างมีความสุขกับคนเดียวกันสำหรับ 38 ปีและมีเด็ก 3 คนที่ปลูก ไม่มีสิ่งใดที่ฉันจะสอนให้คุณทราบว่าผมไม่เคยทำหรือว่าตัวเองที่เป็น ฉันมีชีวิตอยู่และหายใจสิ่งที่ผมสอน มีไม่มีใครบนโลกใบนี้ที่มีการบันทึกการแต่งงานมากขึ้นกว่าที่ฉันมีอยู่
ในเว็บไซต์นี้ท่านสามารถรับฟังข้อความที่ตัดตอนมาของการทำงานของผมเพื่อที่คุณจะรู้สึกสบายใจรู้ว่าคุณจะไม่พบสิ่งอื่นที่แม้จะมาปิดที่สองกับสิ่งที่ฉันมีให้ คุณสามารถคลิกไปได้ในขณะนี้และรับชมการสัมภาษณ์ทีวีของฉัน ในแบบที่คุณจะได้รู้ว่าในหัวใจของคุณซึ่งเหตุผลที่คุณพบเว็บไซต์นี้
ลืมให้คำปรึกษาการสมรส
ในส่วนเรื่องราวความสำเร็จของคุณสามารถอ่านรายละเอียดเกี่ยวกับชายและหญิงที่ได้มีปัญหาในการแต่งงานอย่างจริงจังจำนวนมากพร้อมที่จะแยกจากกันคนอื่นหมิ่นหย่าร้างและวันนี้มีมากขึ้นในความรักกว่าที่พวกเขาเคยคิดว่าเป็นไปได้
ไม่น่าเชื่อว่าเหล่านี้เป็นเสียงชั้นไม่ได้หนึ่งของคู่เหล่านี้บรรลุผลเหล่านี้ผ่านการให้คำปรึกษาการแต่งงาน คุณก็สามารถเรียนรู้ว่าสิ่งที่จะพูดและทำเพื่อเปลี่ยนวิธีการจับคู่ของคุณรู้สึกได้ทันที!
ฉันได้รับการยกมาใน USA TODAY, The New York Times, ผู้คน, Family Circle, Cosmopolitan และ Redbook เกี่ยวกับเทคนิคทางเลือกของฉันไปที่การให้คำปรึกษาการแต่งงาน
ฉันมีปรากฏบนทั้งหมดแสดงให้เห็นพูดคุยที่สำคัญรวมทั้งโอปราหลายครั้งรวมทั้ง, วันนี้การแสดงและบาร์บาราวอลเตอร์ของ"View." ไว้ใจฉัน, คุณไม่ได้รับเหล่านี้แสดงให้เห็นหลายครั้งโดยไม่ต้องมีบางสิ่งบางอย่างที่มีค่าที่จะพูด
ความจริงก็คือถ้าโปรแกรมของผมจะไม่ทำงานให้กับคุณไม่มีอะไรอื่นจะ! ฉันรู้ว่าเสียงหยิ่ง แต่มีหลายร้อยหลายพันคนที่จะกลับไปที่ขึ้น กว่า 1 ล้านโปรแกรมที่มีการขายและการแต่งงานที่ปรึกษานักจิตวิทยาและคณะสงฆ์ได้แนะนำโปรแกรมของฉันให้กับลูกค้าของพวกเขาเป็นเวลาหลายปี เพราะเหตุใด เพราะการทำงานจริงๆ
นี่เป็นเพียงคำพูดไม่กี่คนที่ได้รับความช่วยเหลือจากโครงการของฉัน สำหรับตัวอย่างเพิ่มเติมคลิกที่นี่
กระเป๋าเดินทางของสามีของฉันถูกบรรจุเมื่อผมเห็นคุณในทีวี เขาบอกว่าเขาไม่รักฉันและได้ย้ายออก ฉันถูกทำลายเมื่อฉันค้นพบเขามีความใคร่ เมื่อเขาปฏิเสธการให้คำปรึกษาการแต่งงานฉันได้ที่ไหนเลยเปิด คุณสอนผมวิธีการต่อสู้สำหรับการแต่งงานของฉันและสามีของฉันกลับมาชนะ คุณได้อย่างแท้จริงทุกคำตอบสำหรับคำอธิษฐานของฉัน ขณะนี้เรากำลังอิจฉาของทุกคนที่เรารู้และไม่มีข้อสงสัยในใจของฉันว่าเราจะแก่เฒ่าด้วยกัน มันเป็นความมหัศจรรย์อย่างแท้จริง! ขอบคุณ Sarah C --
ผมและภรรยาได้ไปให้คำปรึกษาการแต่งงานเป็นเวลา 6 เดือนเมื่อฉันเห็นคุณให้สัมภาษณ์ในทีวี ภรรยาผมแน่ใจว่าเธอไม่รักฉันและให้คำปรึกษาการแต่งงานไม่ได้เปลี่ยนความคิดของเธอคุณมีความหวังสุดท้ายของฉันเด็กและนายมาผ่าน! คุณทำให้เธอรู้ว่าลึก ๆ เธอเคยรักฉันจริงๆหากต้องการดูเราตอนนี้จะไม่มีใครเชื่อว่าเราเกือบจะเรียกว่าจบการทำงาน ขอขอบคุณจากก้นบึ้งของหัวใจของฉัน -- แจ็คเอ็น
ง่ายกว่าการให้คำปรึกษาการสมรส
โปรแกรมของฉันเป็นเรื่องง่ายแสนสนุกที่ให้ความบันเทิงและการลงทุนที่ดีที่สุดที่คุณเคยจะทำให้ มันมีแบบที่ตั้งซีดีบรรจุกล่องสวยงามหรือคุณสามารถดาวน์โหลดได้ทันทีสำหรับ iPod หรือเครื่องเล่น MP3
หากคุณผู้หญิงคนนึงคุณควรจะได้มีคนที่รักเธอทั้งหัวใจและจิตวิญญาณของเขา ตั้งไฟสำหรับผู้หญิงของเขาซึ่งเป็นผลดีกว่าการให้คำปรึกษาการแต่งงานเป็นที่รับประกันว่าจะทำให้เกิดขึ้น
หากคุณผู้ชายคนนึงคุณควรจะได้มีผู้หญิงที่รักคุณหมดหัวใจและจิตวิญญาณของเธอ ตั้งไฟสำหรับผู้ชายของเธอซึ่งเป็นผลดีกว่าการให้คำปรึกษาการแต่งงานเป็นที่รับประกันว่าจะทำให้เกิดขึ้น
โปรดทราบว่าคู่ของคุณไม่ต้องทำอะไรเลย คุณสามารถเริ่มต้นได้ทันทีกับโปรแกรมของคุณเองและพวกเขาจะเริ่มต้นการตอบสนองต่อ"ใหม่"คุณ
更快比婚姻辅导
现在我提供这么多的更快，更有效地比传统的婚姻辅导。我不在乎，如果你听说过的话，“我不爱你了，”或“我不觉得你有同样的方式”或“我需要一些空间。”我在这里告诉大家，感情是可以改变。
如果你们俩在开始恋爱，我知道我可以让你觉得一遍，不管你的伴侣或如何说你现在断开。
这是我对你们的承诺。不管你是什么情况，或者是你正在经历，我可以帮你。
有许多所谓“专家”在互联网上和谁有关的所有结果，你会得到他们的可下载书籍或CD的方案走。难道你不觉得如果这是真的很好，他们会希望你收听或观看它的节选？
他们希望，如果他们能在网页上提供足够的炒作你，你不会在意你不能样他们的产品或有办法与他们取得联系。
许多婚姻专家不告诉你一个关于自己的事情，因为他们要么没有结婚或已离婚好几次。他们给别人婚姻咨询意见时，他们甚至不能使他们的工作自己的生活。
我一直愉快地嫁给同一个男人38岁，有3个成年的孩子。没有什么，我会教你，我没有做或说我自己。我活着我传授。有没有这个已经节省了婚姻比我的星球之一。
在这个网站，你能听我的作品选段，让您可以安心地知道你将永远找不到任何其他事物甚至接近第二至我所提供的。你可以点击GO现在，看我的电视采访。这样，你就会知道你的心为什么你发现了这个网站。
忘记婚姻咨询
在成功的故事部分中，您可以阅读关于男人和女人谁是有严重的婚姻问题，很多准备分开，在离婚的边缘人的细节，今天是比他们更爱纤长。
只要这些听起来令人难以置信的故事，而不是通过这些夫妇的婚姻辅导取得这些结果。你也可以学到些什么，说的和做的方式来改变你的伴侣感觉立即生效！
我一直在今日美国报，纽约时报，人民，家庭圈，丽都和红皮书即将婚姻辅导我的替代技术。
我已经出现在各大谈话节目，包括奥普拉很多次，以及，今日节目和芭芭拉沃尔特的“的观点。”相信我，你不上这些节目，而不必说一些有价值的东西多次。
事实是，如果我的程序不为你工作，什么都没用！我知道这听起来有点傲慢，但有很多的人，也回来，高达几十万。超过100万的方案已出售和婚姻专家，心理学家和神职人员我多年来的建议方案，以他们的客户。为什么呢？因为他们真的做的工作。
这里只是从那些被我帮助的人计划数的报价。更多的例子，请点击这里。
我丈夫的行李箱挤得水泄不通，当我在电视上看到你。他告诉我，他不再爱我，在动了。我感到不知所措时，我发现他有外遇。由于他拒绝婚姻辅导我无处可去。你教我如何争取我的婚姻和我的丈夫赢回来。你是真正的答案我所有的祈祷。我们现在人人羡慕我们知道，也没有在我心中疑问，我们会白头到老。这确实是一个奇迹！谢谢。 - 萨拉三
我和妻子已经持续了6个月的婚姻辅导，当我看到你在电视上接受采访。我的妻子肯定她不再爱我，婚姻辅导是不会改变主意。你是我最后的希望和孩子什么时候来通过！你让她认识到，在内心深处，她真的爱我。要看看我们现在，没有人会相信，我们几乎把它称为退出。谢谢从你我的心底。 - 杰克北路
更容易比婚姻辅导
我的程序是简单，有趣，娱乐性和最佳的投资，你将做。它是在一个美丽的盒装CD集提供或者您可以下载您的iPod或MP3播放器立即。
如果你是一个女人，你应该有一个人谁爱他的全部热情和灵魂。光他的火焰女，这是更有效比婚姻辅导，保证使这种情况发生。
如果你是一个男人，你应该有一个女人谁爱她的心和所有的灵魂。光她的消防男子，这也比婚姻辅导有效，能保证做到这一点。
请记住，你的伴侣没有做任何事情。你可以马上开始与自己的程序，他们将开始响应的“新”你。
Πιο γρήγορα από παροχή συμβουλών γάμου
Αυτό που προσφέρω είναι τόσο πολύ πιο γρήγορα και πιο αποδοτικά από την παραδοσιακή παροχή συμβουλών γάμου. Δε με νοιάζει αν έχετε ακούσει τη φράση, "δεν είμαι ερωτευμένος μαζί σου πια,» ή «δεν αισθάνομαι το ίδιο για σας,» ή «Χρειάζομαι κάποιο διάστημα." Είμαι εδώ για να σας πω ότι τα συναισθήματα μπορεί να αλλάξει.
Αν και οι δύο από εσάς ήταν στην αγάπη στην αρχή, ξέρω ότι μπορώ να σας πάρει για να αισθανθεί όπως αυτό πάλι, δεν το θέμα αυτό ο σύντροφός σας έχει πει ή πώς αποσυνδεθεί είστε τώρα.
Εδώ είναι η υπόσχεσή μου προς εσάς. Δεν έχει σημασία τι η κατάστασή σας είναι, ή τι περνάτε, μπορώ να σας βοηθήσω.
Υπάρχουν πολλές λεγόμενες "ειδικοί" στο internet που πηγαίνουν και να λένε για όλα τα αποτελέσματα που θα πάρετε με τα σχολικά βιβλία τους ή προγράμματα CD. Δεν νομίζετε ότι αν ήταν πραγματικά καλή, θα ήθελαν να ακούσουν ή να δείτε ένα απόσπασμα από αυτό;
ελπίδα τους είναι ότι εάν μπορούν να σας παρέχουν αρκετή δημοσιότητα στη σελίδα, δεν θα φροντίδα που δεν μπορείτε να δείγμα του προϊόντος τους ή να έχουν έναν τρόπο να έρθετε σε επαφή μαζί τους.
Πολλοί σύμβουλοι γάμου δεν σας πω ένα πράγμα για τον εαυτό τους, επειδή είτε δεν είναι παντρεμένοι ή έχουν χωρίσει αρκετές φορές. Δίνουν γάμου συμβουλές συμβουλές σε άλλους, όταν δεν μπορούν να κάνουν ακόμη και την εργασία τους τη ζωή.
Έχω ευτυχώς παντρεμένος με τον ίδιο άνθρωπο για 38 χρόνια και έχει 3 παιδιά που καλλιεργούνται. Δεν υπάρχει τίποτα που θα σε διδάξει ότι δεν έχω κάνει ή να πει ο ίδιος. Ζω και αναπνέω αυτό που διδάσκουν. Δεν υπάρχει κανείς σε αυτόν τον πλανήτη που έχει αποθηκεύσει περισσότερο από ό, τι οι γάμοι που έχω.
Σε αυτή τη σελίδα μπορείτε να ακούσετε αποσπάσματα της δουλειάς μου, έτσι ώστε να μπορούν να αισθάνονται άνετα γνωρίζοντας ότι ποτέ δεν θα βρείτε κάτι άλλο που είναι ακόμη μια στενή δεύτερο σε αυτό που έχω να προσφέρουν. Μπορείτε να κάνετε κλικ GO τώρα και να παρακολουθήσετε τηλεοπτική συνέντευξη μου. Με αυτόν τον τρόπο θα ξέρετε στην καρδιά σας γιατί βρήκατε αυτό το site.
Ξεχάστε παροχή συμβουλών γάμου
Στην ενότητα Επιτυχημένες μπορείτε να διαβάσετε αναλυτικά για άνδρες και γυναίκες που είχαν σοβαρά προβλήματα του γάμου, πολλοί έτοιμοι να διαχωρίσουν, άλλες στα πρόθυρα του διαζυγίου, και σήμερα είναι πιο ερωτευμένοι από ό, τι ποτέ δυνατόν.
Όπως απίστευτο ήχο που οι ιστορίες, δεν είναι ένα από αυτά τα ζευγάρια επιτευχθούν αυτά τα αποτελέσματα μέσω της παροχής συμβουλών γάμου. Μπορείτε κι εσείς να μάθετε ακριβώς τι να πει και να κάνετε για να αλλάξετε τον τρόπο που αισθάνεται ο σύντροφός σας αμέσως!
Έχω ήδη αναφέρεται στην USA Today, The New York Times, άνθρωποι, Family Circle, Cosmopolitan και Redbook για εναλλακτικές τεχνικές μου στην παροχή συμβουλών γάμου.
Έχω εμφανιστεί σε όλα τα μεγάλα talk shows, συμπεριλαμβανομένης της Oprah πολλές φορές, καθώς, The Today Show και Barbara Walter "The View". Πίστεψέ με, δεν παίρνετε σε αυτά δείχνει πολλές φορές χωρίς έχουν κάτι πολύτιμο να πει.
Η αλήθεια είναι, αν μου προγράμματα δεν λειτουργούν για σας, τίποτα άλλο δεν θα!Ξέρω ότι ακούγεται αλαζονικό, αλλά υπάρχουν εκατοντάδες χιλιάδες ανθρώπους, που θα υποστηρίξει ότι μέχρι. Πάνω από ένα εκατομμύριο προγράμματα έχουν πωληθεί και γάμος Σύμβουλοι, Ψυχολόγοι και κληρικοί έχουν συστήσει τα προγράμματα μου για τους πελάτες τους για χρόνια. Γιατί; Επειδή κάνουν πραγματικά εργασία.
Εδώ είναι μερικά αποσπάσματα από τους ανθρώπους που έχουν βοηθηθεί από τα προγράμματα μου. Για περισσότερα παραδείγματα, κάντε κλικ εδώ.
βαλίτσα του συζύγου μου ήταν γεμάτο όταν είδα στην τηλεόραση. Μου είπε πως δεν με αγάπησε και κινείται έξω. Αισθάνθηκα απόγνωση όταν ανακάλυψα ότι ήταν μια υπόθεση. Από τότε που αρνήθηκε την παροχή συμβουλών γάμου είχα πουθενά να στραφούν. Μου δίδαξε πώς να αγωνιζόμαστε για το γάμο μου και να κερδίσει ο σύζυγός μου πίσω. Ήσουν πραγματικά η απάντηση σε όλες τις προσευχές μου.Είμαστε τώρα ο φθόνος όλων γνωρίζουμε και δεν υπάρχει αμφιβολία στο μυαλό μου ότι θα γεράσουμε μαζί. Ήταν πραγματικά ένα θαύμα! Σας ευχαριστώ. - Sarah Γ.
Η γυναίκα μου και μου είχαν Θα παροχή συμβουλών γάμου για 6 μήνες, όταν είδα συνέντευξη στην τηλεόραση. Η γυναίκα μου ήταν σίγουρη ότι δεν με αγάπησε και την παροχή συμβουλών γάμου δεν αλλάζει το μυαλό της. Ήσουν τελευταία ελπίδα και το αγόρι μου ήρθες κατευθείαν! Μπορείτε έκανε να συνειδητοποιήσουμε ότι κατά βάθος ήταν πραγματικά μου έκανε έρωτα. Για να δούμε τώρα μαζί μας, κανείς δεν θα πίστευε ότι έχουμε σχεδόν το ονόμασαν κλείνει. Σας ευχαριστώ από τα βάθη της καρδιάς μου.- Jack N.
Ευκολότερη από την παροχή συμβουλών γάμου
Το πρόγραμμά μου είναι εύκολο, διασκεδαστικό, ψυχαγωγικό και η καλύτερη επένδυση που θα κάνετε ποτέ. Είναι διαθέσιμο σε ένα όμορφο box set που CD ή μπορείτε να το κατεβάσετε άμεσα για το iPod σας ή MP3 player.
Εάν είστε γυναίκα, σας αξίζει να έχει ένας άνθρωπος που σε αγαπά με όλη την καρδιά και την ψυχή του. Ανάψτε την πυρκαγιά του για τις γυναίκες, το οποίο είναι πιο αποτελεσματική από την παροχή συμβουλών γάμου, είναι εγγυημένη για να συμβεί αυτό.
Αν είστε ένας άνθρωπος, σας αξίζει να έχει μια γυναίκα που σε αγαπά με όλη την καρδιά και την ψυχή της. Ανάψτε την πυρκαγιά της για τους άνδρες, που είναι και πιο αποτελεσματική από την παροχή συμβουλών γάμου, είναι εγγυημένη για να συμβεί αυτό.
Λάβετε υπόψη ότι ο σύντροφός σας δεν χρειάζεται να κάνετε τίποτα. Μπορείτε να ξεκινήσετε αμέσως με το δικό σας πρόγραμμα και θα αρχίσουν να αντιμετωπίζουν το "νέο" σας.
تیز کی نسبت شادی مذاکرات
کیا میں پیش کرتے ہیں اتنی تیزی سے اور شادی کی روایتی مشاورت سے زیادہ موثر ہے. مجھے کوئی پرواہ نہیں اگر تم اس کے الفاظ نے سنا ہے ، "میں تم سے محبت میں نہیں ہوں ،" یا "میں نے آپ کے بارے میں اسی طرح محسوس نہیں کیا ،" یا "میں کچھ جگہ کی ضرورت ہے." میں یہاں ہوں آپ کو اس کے جذبات سکتے تبدیل کرنے کے لئے کہنا.
اگر تم دونوں نے شروع میں محبت کرتے تھے ، میں جانتا ہوں کہ میں نے تمہیں دوبارہ اس طرح محسوس کرنا ، فرق نہیں پڑتا کہ آپ کے دوست نے کہا کہ یا کس طرح کٹ تم ابھی کر سکتے ہیں.
یہ ہے میرا آپ سے وعدہ ہے. کوئی بات نہیں جو آپ کی صورت حال ہے ، یا تم پر کیا گزر جا رہے ہیں ، میں آپ کی مدد کر سکتے ہیں.
بہت سے نام نہاد انٹرنیٹ پر "ماہرین" جو پر اور کے بارے میں سب کے نتائج آپ ان ڈاؤن لوڈ کرنے کی کتابوں یا سی ڈی کے پروگرام کے ساتھ مل جائے گا پر جا رہے ہیں. تم سوچ بھی نہیں چاہتے کہ اگر یہ واقعی بہت اچھا تھا ، وہ آپ کو یا اس کا ایک اقتباس دیکھنے کے لئے مدد کرنا چاہیں گے؟
ان کی امید یہ ہے کہ اگر وہ آپ کو اس صفحہ پر کافی hype کے ساتھ فراہم کر سکتا ہے ، کیا تم نہیں دیکھ بھال کرے گا کہ آپ کے نمونے ان کے مصنوعات یا نہیں ان کے ساتھ رابطے میں طریقہ ہو سکتا ہے.
بہت سے لوگ شادی کے مشیر نے تمہیں نہیں بتایا خود کے بارے میں ایک بات یہ کہ انہوں نے یا تو ہو یا شادی شدہ نہیں ہے کئی بار طلاق دے دی گئی ہے. وہ دوسروں کو جب انہوں نے بھی اپنی زندگی کا کام نہیں کر سکتے ہیں سے شادی کرنے کے مشورہ مشورہ دے رہے ہیں.
میں نے خوشی سے دیا گیا 38 سال کے لئے ایک ہی شخص سے شادی کی اور 3 بڑے بچے ہیں. وہاں کچھ بھی نہیں ہے کہ میں نے تمہیں سکھایا ہے کہ میں نے کیا نہیں ہے یا اپنے آپ کو کہا جائے گا ہے. میں زندہ ہوں اور سانس لینے میں کیا سکھاتے ہیں. اس سیارے کو اس سے زیادہ شادیوں کو محفوظ سے میں نے کی ہے ، پر کوئی نہیں ہے.
اس ويب سائٹ پر آپ کو اپنے کام کے حوالہ جات کے لئے مدد تاکہ تم آرام محسوس یہ جان کر کہ آپ کو کچھ پتہ نہیں اور جو بھی ہے کر سکتے ہیں ایک کو بند کرنے میں کیا پیش کیا ہے دوسری. تم جاؤ ابھی کلک کریں اور اپنے ٹی وی انٹرویو کے دیکھ سکتے ہیں. اس طرح تم نے اپنے دل کیوں آپ اس ویب سائٹ میں ملے پتہ چل جائے گا.
شادی مذاکرات کو بھول جاؤ
کامیابی کی کہانیاں حصے میں آپ کو مرد اور عورتیں ، طلاق کے راستے پر جو سنگین شادی کے مسائل رہے تھے الگ الگ بہت سے تیار کرنا ، دوسروں کے بارے میں تفصیل سے پڑھیں ، اور آج بھی زیادہ محبت کے مقابلے میں وہ ان میں ہمیشہ ممکن خیال کر سکتے ہیں.
ان کی کہانیاں آواز کے طور پر ناقابل اعتماد طور پر ، نہ ان جوڑوں میں سے ایک کی شادی مشاورت کے ذریعے ان کے نتائج حاصل کیا. آپ بھی سیکھنا بالکل کیا اور جس طرح سے اپنے دوست کو فوری طور پر محسوس تبدیل کرنے کے لئے کیا کیا کہہ سکتی ہوں!
میں نے اپنی شادی کے مشورہ کے لئے متبادل طریقوں کے بارے میں امریکہ کی ٹوڈی ، نیو یارک ٹائمز ، لوگ ، خاندانی سرکل ، میٹرو اور Redbook میں حوالہ دیا ہے.
میں تمام اہم بات پتہ چلتا ہے پر شائع کیا ہے Oprah کئی بار بھی شامل ہیں ، اسی طرح ، آج دکھائیں اور باربرا ہے والٹر "دیکھیں." میرا یقین کرو ، تم پر نہ ہو ان سے کہیں قیمتی کچھ کئے بغیر کئی بار دکھاتا ہے.
حقیقت یہ ہے کہ ، اگر میرے پروگرام آپ کے لئے کام نہیں کر رہا ، اور کچھ نہیں کرے گا! مجھے معلوم ہے کہ تکبر سنہرے بالوں والی ، لیکن وہاں لوگوں کو اس نے اس کو واپس کرے گا لاکھوں ہیں. 1 دس لاکھ سے زیادہ پروگرام فروخت کیا گیا ہے اور شادی نصیحت کرنے والوں کو ، ماہرین نفسیات اور پادری اپنے گاہکوں کو سال کے لئے اپنے پروگرام کی سفارش کی ہے. کیوں؟ کیونکہ وہ واقعی کام کرتے ہیں.
یہاں صرف لوگوں کے لئے جو ہے میرے پروگراموں کے ذریعے کی گئی مدد سے کچھ قیمتیں ہیں. مزید مثالوں کے لیے یہاں کلک کریں.
میرے شوہر کی اٹیچی بھری ہوئی تھی جب میں نے تمہیں ٹی وی پر دیکھا. انہوں نے مجھے بتایا کہ وہ اب مجھ سے محبت کرتا تھا اور باہر منتقل. میں تباہ ہو گیا تھا جب مجھے پتہ چلا کہ وہ ایک چکر چل رہا تھا. چونکہ وہ شادی کے مشورہ سے انکار کر دیا مجھے کہیں نہیں تھا کی طرف متوجہ. تم نے مجھے سکھایا کس طرح میری شادی کے لئے لڑنا اور میرے شوہر واپس جیت. تم نے واقعی اس کا جواب سب کو میری درخواست پر کیا گیا. اب ہم سب کو ہم جانتے ہیں کے حسد کر رہے ہیں اور وہاں میرے دماغ میں ایک شک ہے کہ ہم بوڑھے ہو جاؤ اور ساتھ میں کریں گے نہیں ہے. یہ واقعی ایک چمتکار تھا! آپ کا شکریہ. سارا سی --
میری بیوی اور میں نے 6 ماہ کے لئے کیا گیا ہے شادی مشاورت کی جا رہی جب میں نے دیکھا تم نے ٹی وی پر انٹرویو. میری بیوی نے اس بات کا یقین تھا کہ وہ نہیں محبت مجھ سے اور شادی مشاورت کی اس کے دل کو تبدیل نہیں کیا گیا. تم میری آخری امید اور لڑکے نے آپ کے ذریعے آئے تھے! تم نے اسے احساس ہوا کہ نیچے کیا وہ سچ میں نے گہری مجھ سے محبت کرتے. کرنے کے لئے ہم پر اب دیکھو کسی کو یقین ہے کہ ہم نے تقریبا نے اسے کھول کر برخاست کریں گے. میرے دل کی گہرائی سے شکریہ. جیک این --
آسان کی نسبت شادی مذاکرات
میرا پروگرام آسان ، کھیل ، تفریح مہیا کرنے اور سب سے بہترین سرمایہ کاری کیا تم نے کبھی کر دے گا ہے. یہ ایک خوبصورت boxed سی ڈی سیٹ میں دستیاب ہے یا آپ اسے اپنے آئپاڈ یا MP3 پلیئر کے لئے ڈاؤن لوڈ ، اتارنا فوری طور پر کر سکتے ہیں.
اگر تم ایک عورت ہو ، تم ایک شخص ہے جس نے تم سب کو اس کے دل اور روح سے محبت کرتا ہے اسی قابل ہیں. نور عورتوں کے لئے اس کی دوزخ کی) آگ ہے ، جو شادی کے مشورہ سے زیادہ موثر ہے ، کرنا ہے کہ کیا ہونے کی ضمانت دی ہے.
اگر آپ کے پاس آدمی ہو ، تم ایک عورت ہے جو تم سب اس کے دل اور روح سے محبت کرتا ہے اسی قابل ہیں.نور مردوں کے لئے اس کی دوزخ کی) آگ ہے ، جو بھی ہے شادی کی مشاورت سے زیادہ موثر ، کر لیں کہ کیا ہونے کی ضمانت دی ہے.
یاد رکھیں کہ آپ کے دوست ایک کام کرنا نہیں ہے. تم ابھی اپنے پروگرام کے ساتھ شروع حاصل کر سکتے ہیں اور انہوں نے "نئے" تم سے شروع جواب دیں گے.
أسرع من الاستشارات الزواج
ما أقدم الكثير من أسرع وأكثر فعالية من تقديم المشورة الزواج التقليدي. لا يهمني إذا كنت قد سمعت عبارة "أنا لست في الحب معك بعد الآن" ، أو "لا أشعر بنفس الطريقة عنك ،" أو "انا بحاجة الى بعض الفضاء." انا هنا لاقول لكم ان التغيير يمكن أن المشاعر.
إذا كانت كل من كنت في الحب في البداية ، وأنا أعلم أنني يمكن أن تحصل على مثل هذا الشعور مرة أخرى ، بغض النظر عن ما لم الخاص بك وقالت قطع أو كيف أنت الآن.
هنا هو وعدي لك. بغض النظر عن الوضع الخاص بك ، أو ما كنت تمر ، لا أستطيع مساعدتك.
وهناك العديد من ما يسمى ب "الخبراء" على شبكة الانترنت الذي يستمر وعلى النتائج عن كل ما ستحصل عليه مع كتبهم أو تحميل البرامج المضغوطة. لن كنت تعتقد انه اذا كانت جيدة حقا ، فإنها تريد لك الاستماع أو مشاهدة مقتطفات من ذلك؟
أملهم هو أنه إذا أنها يمكن أن توفر لك ما يكفي من الضجيج على الصفحة ، فإنك لن الرعاية التي لم تتمكن من عينة منتجاتها أو وسيلة للحصول على اتصال معهم.
المستشارين زواج كثيرة لا أقول لكم شيئا عن أنفسهم لأنهم إما أن تكون غير متزوجة أو قد طلق عدة مرات. انهم يقدمون المشورة زواج المشورة للآخرين عندما لا يستطيع العمل حتى حياتهم الخاصة.
لقد كنت متزوجا بسعادة للرجل نفسه لمدة 38 عاما ولها 3 أطفال نمت. ليس هناك ما سوف يعلمك ان لم تكن قد فعلت أنا نفسي أو قال. أعيش وأتنفس ما أعلم. لا يوجد أحد على هذا الكوكب الذي أنقذ أكثر من الزواج لدي.
على هذا الموقع يمكنك الاستماع إلى مقتطفات من عملي بحيث يمكنك أن تشعر بالراحة وأنت تعرف أنك لن تجد أي شيء آخر حتى أنها في المرتبة الثانية على ما لدي لهذا العرض. يمكنك الآن الذهاب فوق الحق ومشاهدة التلفزيون مقابلتي. بهذه الطريقة سوف تعرف في قلبك لماذا وجدت في هذا الموقع.
ننسى الزواج المشورة
في قسم قصص النجاح يمكنك أن تقرأ بالتفصيل عن الرجال والنساء الذين كانوا لديها مشاكل خطيرة زواج ، وكثير استعداد لفصل ، والبعض الآخر على وشك الطلاق ، واليوم هي في الحب أكثر مما فكرت ممكن.
كما لا يمكن تصديقه لأن هذه القصص السليمة ، ولا واحد من هؤلاء الأزواج هذه النتائج من خلال تقديم المشورة الزواج. يمكنك أيضا تعلم بالضبط ما يقول ويفعل لتغيير الطريقة التي لم يشعر بك على الفور!
لقد اقتبست في اليوم الولايات المتحدة الأمريكية ، نيويورك تايمز ، والشعب ، دائرة الأسرة ، عالمي والكتاب الأحمر حول أساليب بديلة لتقديم المشورة لي الزواج.
ويبدو لي في كل البرامج الحوارية الرئيسية ، بما في ذلك مرات عديدة أوبرا ، وكذلك ، وإظهار اليوم وباربرا والتر "رأي". ثق بي ، وكنت لا تحصل على هذه العروض عدة مرات دون أن يقول شيئا ذا قيمة.
والحقيقة هي ، إذا برامج بلدي لا عمل لك ، ولا شيء آخر سوف! وأعرف أن أصوات متكبر ولكن هناك مئات الآلاف من الناس التي من شأنها دعم ذلك. وقد تم بيع أكثر من 1 مليون الزواج البرامج والمستشارين وعلماء النفس ورجال الدين وأوصت بلادي برامج لعملائها لسنوات. لماذا؟ لأنهم حقا العمل.
هنا مجرد أمثلة قليلة من الناس يقتبس التي ساعدت من قبل برامج بلدي. لمزيد من الأمثلة ، انقر هنا.
كان زوجي حقيبة معبأة عندما رأيتك على شاشة التلفزيون. وقال لي انه لم يعد يحبها ، وكان لي الخروج. دمرت أنا عندما اكتشفت انه كان وجود علاقة غرامية. منذ رفض الزواج المشورة كان لي مكان آخر لتحويل. علمتني كيف للقتال من أجل الفوز زواجي وزوجي مرة أخرى. لقد كنت حقا الإجابة على جميع صلواتي. ونحن الآن موضع حسد من الجميع ونحن نعرف وليس هناك شك في ذهني أننا لن نشيخ معا. انها حقا معجزة! شكرا لك. -- سارة جيم
وأنا وزوجتي على الذهاب الى الزواج المشورة لمدة 6 أشهر عندما رأيتك مقابلات على شاشة التلفزيون. زوجتي كانت متأكدة أنها لم تعد تحبني والمشورة زواج لم تغير رأيها. لقد كنت آمل مشاركة وصبي هل تأتي من خلال! أنت جعلت لها ندرك أن في أعماقي أنها لم تحبني حقا. وينظرون إلينا الآن ، لن يصدق احد ان كنا نسميها تقريبا انسحبت. شكرا من أعماق قلبي. -- جاك ن.
أسهل من الزواج المشورة
برنامجي هو سهلة وممتعة ، مسلية وأفضل استثمار التي سوف تجعل من أي وقت مضى. وهي متاحة في مجموعة الأقراص محاصر جميلة أو يمكنك تحميل البرنامج على الفور الحصول على اي بود الخاص بك أو مشغل MP3.
إذا كنت امرأة ، فأنت تستحق أن يكون الرجل الذي يحبك من كل قلبه وروحه. مكفول ضوء النار صاحب بالنسبة للمرأة ، التي هي أكثر فعالية من الزواج المشورة ، لتحقيق ذلك.
إذا كنت رجل ، أنت تستحق أن تكون هناك امرأة الذي يحبك من كل قلبها وروحها. مكفول ضوء النار صاحبة للرجال ، والتي هي أيضا أكثر فعالية من الزواج المشورة ، لتحقيق ذلك.
نضع في اعتبارنا أن شريك حياتك لا يجب أن تفعل شيئا. يمكنك أن تبدأ على الفور مع البرنامج الخاص بك وانها سوف تبدأ الاستجابة ل"الجديد" لك.
What I offer is so much faster and more effective than traditional marriage counseling. I don't care if you've heard the words, "I'm not in love with you anymore," or "I don't feel the same way about you," or "I need some space." I am here to tell you that feelings CAN change.
If both of you were in love in the beginning, I know that I can get you to feel like that again, no matter what your mate has said or how disconnected you are right now.
Here is my promise to you. No matter what your situation is, or what you are going through, I can help you.
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I have been happily married to the same man for 38 years and have 3 grown children. There is nothing that I will teach you that I haven't done or said myself. I live and breathe what I teach. There is no one on this planet that has saved more marriages than I have.
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Forget Marriage Counseling
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I've been quoted in USA TODAY, The New York Times, People, Family Circle, Cosmopolitan and Redbook about my alternative techniques to marriage counseling.
I have appeared on all the major talk shows, including Oprah many times, as well as, The Today Show and Barbara Walter's "The View." Trust me, you don't get on these shows multiple times without having something valuable to say.
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My wife and I had been going to marriage counseling for 6 months when I saw you interviewed on TV. My wife was sure that she no longer loved me and marriage counseling was not changing her mind. You were my last hope and boy did you come through! You made her realize that deep down she really did love me. To look at us now, no one would believe that we almost called it quits. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. - Jack N.
Easier Than Marriage Counseling
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เร็วกว่าการให้คำปรึกษาการสมรส
สิ่งที่ฉันเสนอเพื่อให้รวดเร็วยิ่งขึ้นและมีประสิทธิภาพมากกว่าการให้คำปรึกษาการแต่งงานแบบดั้งเดิม ฉันไม่ดูแลถ้าคุณเคยได้ยินคำว่า"ฉันไม่ได้รักคุณอีกต่อไป"หรือ"ฉันไม่รู้สึกเช่นเดียวกับคุณ"หรือ"ฉันต้องมีพื้นที่ว่างบาง. ฉันอยู่ที่นี่จะบอกว่าสามารถเปลี่ยนความรู้สึก
หากทั้งสองท่านอยู่ในความรักในตอนแรก, ฉันรู้ว่าฉันสามารถช่วยให้คุณรู้สึกอย่างนั้นอีกครั้งไม่ว่าสิ่งที่คู่ของคุณมีการพูดหรือวิธีการตัดการเชื่อมต่อคุณได้ในขณะนี้
นี่คือสัญญาของฉันกับคุณ ไม่ว่าสถานการณ์ของคุณคืออะไรหรือสิ่งที่คุณจะผ่านมีอะไรให้ช่วยคุณ
มีจำนวนมากเรียกว่า"ผู้เชี่ยวชาญ"บนอินเทอร์เน็ตที่ไปและในทุกเกี่ยวกับผลลัพธ์ที่คุณจะได้รับกับหนังสือของพวกเขาหรือดาวน์โหลดโปรแกรมซีดีได้ คุณจะไม่คิดว่าถ้ามันเป็นที่ดีมาก ๆ พวกเขาจะต้องการให้คุณฟังหรือดูข้อความที่ตัดตอนมาของมัน?
ความหวังของพวกเขาคือว่าหากพวกเขาสามารถให้คุณมี hype เพียงพอในหน้าคุณจะไม่สนใจว่าคุณจะไม่สามารถตัวอย่างผลิตภัณฑ์ของตนหรือมีวิธีการได้รับการติดต่อกับพวกเขา
ให้คำปรึกษาการแต่งงานจำนวนมากไม่ได้บอกคุณสิ่งที่เกี่ยวกับตัวเองเพราะพวกเขาเป็นอย่างใดอย่างหนึ่งไม่ได้จดทะเบียนสมรสหรือได้รับการหย่าร้างกันหลายครั้ง พวกเขาจะให้คำแนะนำในการให้คำปรึกษาแต่งงานกับคนอื่นเมื่อพวกเขาไม่สามารถแม้แต่จะทำให้ชีวิตการทำงานของตัวเอง
ฉันได้รับการแต่งงานอย่างมีความสุขกับคนเดียวกันสำหรับ 38 ปีและมีเด็ก 3 คนที่ปลูก ไม่มีสิ่งใดที่ฉันจะสอนให้คุณทราบว่าผมไม่เคยทำหรือว่าตัวเองที่เป็น ฉันมีชีวิตอยู่และหายใจสิ่งที่ผมสอน มีไม่มีใครบนโลกใบนี้ที่มีการบันทึกการแต่งงานมากขึ้นกว่าที่ฉันมีอยู่
ในเว็บไซต์นี้ท่านสามารถรับฟังข้อความที่ตัดตอนมาของการทำงานของผมเพื่อที่คุณจะรู้สึกสบายใจรู้ว่าคุณจะไม่พบสิ่งอื่นที่แม้จะมาปิดที่สองกับสิ่งที่ฉันมีให้ คุณสามารถคลิกไปได้ในขณะนี้และรับชมการสัมภาษณ์ทีวีของฉัน ในแบบที่คุณจะได้รู้ว่าในหัวใจของคุณซึ่งเหตุผลที่คุณพบเว็บไซต์นี้
ลืมให้คำปรึกษาการสมรส
ในส่วนเรื่องราวความสำเร็จของคุณสามารถอ่านรายละเอียดเกี่ยวกับชายและหญิงที่ได้มีปัญหาในการแต่งงานอย่างจริงจังจำนวนมากพร้อมที่จะแยกจากกันคนอื่นหมิ่นหย่าร้างและวันนี้มีมากขึ้นในความรักกว่าที่พวกเขาเคยคิดว่าเป็นไปได้
ไม่น่าเชื่อว่าเหล่านี้เป็นเสียงชั้นไม่ได้หนึ่งของคู่เหล่านี้บรรลุผลเหล่านี้ผ่านการให้คำปรึกษาการแต่งงาน คุณก็สามารถเรียนรู้ว่าสิ่งที่จะพูดและทำเพื่อเปลี่ยนวิธีการจับคู่ของคุณรู้สึกได้ทันที!
ฉันได้รับการยกมาใน USA TODAY, The New York Times, ผู้คน, Family Circle, Cosmopolitan และ Redbook เกี่ยวกับเทคนิคทางเลือกของฉันไปที่การให้คำปรึกษาการแต่งงาน
ฉันมีปรากฏบนทั้งหมดแสดงให้เห็นพูดคุยที่สำคัญรวมทั้งโอปราหลายครั้งรวมทั้ง, วันนี้การแสดงและบาร์บาราวอลเตอร์ของ"View." ไว้ใจฉัน, คุณไม่ได้รับเหล่านี้แสดงให้เห็นหลายครั้งโดยไม่ต้องมีบางสิ่งบางอย่างที่มีค่าที่จะพูด
ความจริงก็คือถ้าโปรแกรมของผมจะไม่ทำงานให้กับคุณไม่มีอะไรอื่นจะ! ฉันรู้ว่าเสียงหยิ่ง แต่มีหลายร้อยหลายพันคนที่จะกลับไปที่ขึ้น กว่า 1 ล้านโปรแกรมที่มีการขายและการแต่งงานที่ปรึกษานักจิตวิทยาและคณะสงฆ์ได้แนะนำโปรแกรมของฉันให้กับลูกค้าของพวกเขาเป็นเวลาหลายปี เพราะเหตุใด เพราะการทำงานจริงๆ
นี่เป็นเพียงคำพูดไม่กี่คนที่ได้รับความช่วยเหลือจากโครงการของฉัน สำหรับตัวอย่างเพิ่มเติมคลิกที่นี่
กระเป๋าเดินทางของสามีของฉันถูกบรรจุเมื่อผมเห็นคุณในทีวี เขาบอกว่าเขาไม่รักฉันและได้ย้ายออก ฉันถูกทำลายเมื่อฉันค้นพบเขามีความใคร่ เมื่อเขาปฏิเสธการให้คำปรึกษาการแต่งงานฉันได้ที่ไหนเลยเปิด คุณสอนผมวิธีการต่อสู้สำหรับการแต่งงานของฉันและสามีของฉันกลับมาชนะ คุณได้อย่างแท้จริงทุกคำตอบสำหรับคำอธิษฐานของฉัน ขณะนี้เรากำลังอิจฉาของทุกคนที่เรารู้และไม่มีข้อสงสัยในใจของฉันว่าเราจะแก่เฒ่าด้วยกัน มันเป็นความมหัศจรรย์อย่างแท้จริง! ขอบคุณ Sarah C --
ผมและภรรยาได้ไปให้คำปรึกษาการแต่งงานเป็นเวลา 6 เดือนเมื่อฉันเห็นคุณให้สัมภาษณ์ในทีวี ภรรยาผมแน่ใจว่าเธอไม่รักฉันและให้คำปรึกษาการแต่งงานไม่ได้เปลี่ยนความคิดของเธอคุณมีความหวังสุดท้ายของฉันเด็กและนายมาผ่าน! คุณทำให้เธอรู้ว่าลึก ๆ เธอเคยรักฉันจริงๆหากต้องการดูเราตอนนี้จะไม่มีใครเชื่อว่าเราเกือบจะเรียกว่าจบการทำงาน ขอขอบคุณจากก้นบึ้งของหัวใจของฉัน -- แจ็คเอ็น
ง่ายกว่าการให้คำปรึกษาการสมรส
โปรแกรมของฉันเป็นเรื่องง่ายแสนสนุกที่ให้ความบันเทิงและการลงทุนที่ดีที่สุดที่คุณเคยจะทำให้ มันมีแบบที่ตั้งซีดีบรรจุกล่องสวยงามหรือคุณสามารถดาวน์โหลดได้ทันทีสำหรับ iPod หรือเครื่องเล่น MP3
หากคุณผู้หญิงคนนึงคุณควรจะได้มีคนที่รักเธอทั้งหัวใจและจิตวิญญาณของเขา ตั้งไฟสำหรับผู้หญิงของเขาซึ่งเป็นผลดีกว่าการให้คำปรึกษาการแต่งงานเป็นที่รับประกันว่าจะทำให้เกิดขึ้น
หากคุณผู้ชายคนนึงคุณควรจะได้มีผู้หญิงที่รักคุณหมดหัวใจและจิตวิญญาณของเธอ ตั้งไฟสำหรับผู้ชายของเธอซึ่งเป็นผลดีกว่าการให้คำปรึกษาการแต่งงานเป็นที่รับประกันว่าจะทำให้เกิดขึ้น
โปรดทราบว่าคู่ของคุณไม่ต้องทำอะไรเลย คุณสามารถเริ่มต้นได้ทันทีกับโปรแกรมของคุณเองและพวกเขาจะเริ่มต้นการตอบสนองต่อ"ใหม่"คุณ
更快比婚姻辅导
现在我提供这么多的更快，更有效地比传统的婚姻辅导。我不在乎，如果你听说过的话，“我不爱你了，”或“我不觉得你有同样的方式”或“我需要一些空间。”我在这里告诉大家，感情是可以改变。
如果你们俩在开始恋爱，我知道我可以让你觉得一遍，不管你的伴侣或如何说你现在断开。
这是我对你们的承诺。不管你是什么情况，或者是你正在经历，我可以帮你。
有许多所谓“专家”在互联网上和谁有关的所有结果，你会得到他们的可下载书籍或CD的方案走。难道你不觉得如果这是真的很好，他们会希望你收听或观看它的节选？
他们希望，如果他们能在网页上提供足够的炒作你，你不会在意你不能样他们的产品或有办法与他们取得联系。
许多婚姻专家不告诉你一个关于自己的事情，因为他们要么没有结婚或已离婚好几次。他们给别人婚姻咨询意见时，他们甚至不能使他们的工作自己的生活。
我一直愉快地嫁给同一个男人38岁，有3个成年的孩子。没有什么，我会教你，我没有做或说我自己。我活着我传授。有没有这个已经节省了婚姻比我的星球之一。
在这个网站，你能听我的作品选段，让您可以安心地知道你将永远找不到任何其他事物甚至接近第二至我所提供的。你可以点击GO现在，看我的电视采访。这样，你就会知道你的心为什么你发现了这个网站。
忘记婚姻咨询
在成功的故事部分中，您可以阅读关于男人和女人谁是有严重的婚姻问题，很多准备分开，在离婚的边缘人的细节，今天是比他们更爱纤长。
只要这些听起来令人难以置信的故事，而不是通过这些夫妇的婚姻辅导取得这些结果。你也可以学到些什么，说的和做的方式来改变你的伴侣感觉立即生效！
我一直在今日美国报，纽约时报，人民，家庭圈，丽都和红皮书即将婚姻辅导我的替代技术。
我已经出现在各大谈话节目，包括奥普拉很多次，以及，今日节目和芭芭拉沃尔特的“的观点。”相信我，你不上这些节目，而不必说一些有价值的东西多次。
事实是，如果我的程序不为你工作，什么都没用！我知道这听起来有点傲慢，但有很多的人，也回来，高达几十万。超过100万的方案已出售和婚姻专家，心理学家和神职人员我多年来的建议方案，以他们的客户。为什么呢？因为他们真的做的工作。
这里只是从那些被我帮助的人计划数的报价。更多的例子，请点击这里。
我丈夫的行李箱挤得水泄不通，当我在电视上看到你。他告诉我，他不再爱我，在动了。我感到不知所措时，我发现他有外遇。由于他拒绝婚姻辅导我无处可去。你教我如何争取我的婚姻和我的丈夫赢回来。你是真正的答案我所有的祈祷。我们现在人人羡慕我们知道，也没有在我心中疑问，我们会白头到老。这确实是一个奇迹！谢谢。 - 萨拉三
我和妻子已经持续了6个月的婚姻辅导，当我看到你在电视上接受采访。我的妻子肯定她不再爱我，婚姻辅导是不会改变主意。你是我最后的希望和孩子什么时候来通过！你让她认识到，在内心深处，她真的爱我。要看看我们现在，没有人会相信，我们几乎把它称为退出。谢谢从你我的心底。 - 杰克北路
更容易比婚姻辅导
我的程序是简单，有趣，娱乐性和最佳的投资，你将做。它是在一个美丽的盒装CD集提供或者您可以下载您的iPod或MP3播放器立即。
如果你是一个女人，你应该有一个人谁爱他的全部热情和灵魂。光他的火焰女，这是更有效比婚姻辅导，保证使这种情况发生。
如果你是一个男人，你应该有一个女人谁爱她的心和所有的灵魂。光她的消防男子，这也比婚姻辅导有效，能保证做到这一点。
请记住，你的伴侣没有做任何事情。你可以马上开始与自己的程序，他们将开始响应的“新”你。
Πιο γρήγορα από παροχή συμβουλών γάμου
Αυτό που προσφέρω είναι τόσο πολύ πιο γρήγορα και πιο αποδοτικά από την παραδοσιακή παροχή συμβουλών γάμου. Δε με νοιάζει αν έχετε ακούσει τη φράση, "δεν είμαι ερωτευμένος μαζί σου πια,» ή «δεν αισθάνομαι το ίδιο για σας,» ή «Χρειάζομαι κάποιο διάστημα." Είμαι εδώ για να σας πω ότι τα συναισθήματα μπορεί να αλλάξει.
Αν και οι δύο από εσάς ήταν στην αγάπη στην αρχή, ξέρω ότι μπορώ να σας πάρει για να αισθανθεί όπως αυτό πάλι, δεν το θέμα αυτό ο σύντροφός σας έχει πει ή πώς αποσυνδεθεί είστε τώρα.
Εδώ είναι η υπόσχεσή μου προς εσάς. Δεν έχει σημασία τι η κατάστασή σας είναι, ή τι περνάτε, μπορώ να σας βοηθήσω.
Υπάρχουν πολλές λεγόμενες "ειδικοί" στο internet που πηγαίνουν και να λένε για όλα τα αποτελέσματα που θα πάρετε με τα σχολικά βιβλία τους ή προγράμματα CD. Δεν νομίζετε ότι αν ήταν πραγματικά καλή, θα ήθελαν να ακούσουν ή να δείτε ένα απόσπασμα από αυτό;
ελπίδα τους είναι ότι εάν μπορούν να σας παρέχουν αρκετή δημοσιότητα στη σελίδα, δεν θα φροντίδα που δεν μπορείτε να δείγμα του προϊόντος τους ή να έχουν έναν τρόπο να έρθετε σε επαφή μαζί τους.
Πολλοί σύμβουλοι γάμου δεν σας πω ένα πράγμα για τον εαυτό τους, επειδή είτε δεν είναι παντρεμένοι ή έχουν χωρίσει αρκετές φορές. Δίνουν γάμου συμβουλές συμβουλές σε άλλους, όταν δεν μπορούν να κάνουν ακόμη και την εργασία τους τη ζωή.
Έχω ευτυχώς παντρεμένος με τον ίδιο άνθρωπο για 38 χρόνια και έχει 3 παιδιά που καλλιεργούνται. Δεν υπάρχει τίποτα που θα σε διδάξει ότι δεν έχω κάνει ή να πει ο ίδιος. Ζω και αναπνέω αυτό που διδάσκουν. Δεν υπάρχει κανείς σε αυτόν τον πλανήτη που έχει αποθηκεύσει περισσότερο από ό, τι οι γάμοι που έχω.
Σε αυτή τη σελίδα μπορείτε να ακούσετε αποσπάσματα της δουλειάς μου, έτσι ώστε να μπορούν να αισθάνονται άνετα γνωρίζοντας ότι ποτέ δεν θα βρείτε κάτι άλλο που είναι ακόμη μια στενή δεύτερο σε αυτό που έχω να προσφέρουν. Μπορείτε να κάνετε κλικ GO τώρα και να παρακολουθήσετε τηλεοπτική συνέντευξη μου. Με αυτόν τον τρόπο θα ξέρετε στην καρδιά σας γιατί βρήκατε αυτό το site.
Ξεχάστε παροχή συμβουλών γάμου
Στην ενότητα Επιτυχημένες μπορείτε να διαβάσετε αναλυτικά για άνδρες και γυναίκες που είχαν σοβαρά προβλήματα του γάμου, πολλοί έτοιμοι να διαχωρίσουν, άλλες στα πρόθυρα του διαζυγίου, και σήμερα είναι πιο ερωτευμένοι από ό, τι ποτέ δυνατόν.
Όπως απίστευτο ήχο που οι ιστορίες, δεν είναι ένα από αυτά τα ζευγάρια επιτευχθούν αυτά τα αποτελέσματα μέσω της παροχής συμβουλών γάμου. Μπορείτε κι εσείς να μάθετε ακριβώς τι να πει και να κάνετε για να αλλάξετε τον τρόπο που αισθάνεται ο σύντροφός σας αμέσως!
Έχω ήδη αναφέρεται στην USA Today, The New York Times, άνθρωποι, Family Circle, Cosmopolitan και Redbook για εναλλακτικές τεχνικές μου στην παροχή συμβουλών γάμου.
Έχω εμφανιστεί σε όλα τα μεγάλα talk shows, συμπεριλαμβανομένης της Oprah πολλές φορές, καθώς, The Today Show και Barbara Walter "The View". Πίστεψέ με, δεν παίρνετε σε αυτά δείχνει πολλές φορές χωρίς έχουν κάτι πολύτιμο να πει.
Η αλήθεια είναι, αν μου προγράμματα δεν λειτουργούν για σας, τίποτα άλλο δεν θα!Ξέρω ότι ακούγεται αλαζονικό, αλλά υπάρχουν εκατοντάδες χιλιάδες ανθρώπους, που θα υποστηρίξει ότι μέχρι. Πάνω από ένα εκατομμύριο προγράμματα έχουν πωληθεί και γάμος Σύμβουλοι, Ψυχολόγοι και κληρικοί έχουν συστήσει τα προγράμματα μου για τους πελάτες τους για χρόνια. Γιατί; Επειδή κάνουν πραγματικά εργασία.
Εδώ είναι μερικά αποσπάσματα από τους ανθρώπους που έχουν βοηθηθεί από τα προγράμματα μου. Για περισσότερα παραδείγματα, κάντε κλικ εδώ.
βαλίτσα του συζύγου μου ήταν γεμάτο όταν είδα στην τηλεόραση. Μου είπε πως δεν με αγάπησε και κινείται έξω. Αισθάνθηκα απόγνωση όταν ανακάλυψα ότι ήταν μια υπόθεση. Από τότε που αρνήθηκε την παροχή συμβουλών γάμου είχα πουθενά να στραφούν. Μου δίδαξε πώς να αγωνιζόμαστε για το γάμο μου και να κερδίσει ο σύζυγός μου πίσω. Ήσουν πραγματικά η απάντηση σε όλες τις προσευχές μου.Είμαστε τώρα ο φθόνος όλων γνωρίζουμε και δεν υπάρχει αμφιβολία στο μυαλό μου ότι θα γεράσουμε μαζί. Ήταν πραγματικά ένα θαύμα! Σας ευχαριστώ. - Sarah Γ.
Η γυναίκα μου και μου είχαν Θα παροχή συμβουλών γάμου για 6 μήνες, όταν είδα συνέντευξη στην τηλεόραση. Η γυναίκα μου ήταν σίγουρη ότι δεν με αγάπησε και την παροχή συμβουλών γάμου δεν αλλάζει το μυαλό της. Ήσουν τελευταία ελπίδα και το αγόρι μου ήρθες κατευθείαν! Μπορείτε έκανε να συνειδητοποιήσουμε ότι κατά βάθος ήταν πραγματικά μου έκανε έρωτα. Για να δούμε τώρα μαζί μας, κανείς δεν θα πίστευε ότι έχουμε σχεδόν το ονόμασαν κλείνει. Σας ευχαριστώ από τα βάθη της καρδιάς μου.- Jack N.
Ευκολότερη από την παροχή συμβουλών γάμου
Το πρόγραμμά μου είναι εύκολο, διασκεδαστικό, ψυχαγωγικό και η καλύτερη επένδυση που θα κάνετε ποτέ. Είναι διαθέσιμο σε ένα όμορφο box set που CD ή μπορείτε να το κατεβάσετε άμεσα για το iPod σας ή MP3 player.
Εάν είστε γυναίκα, σας αξίζει να έχει ένας άνθρωπος που σε αγαπά με όλη την καρδιά και την ψυχή του. Ανάψτε την πυρκαγιά του για τις γυναίκες, το οποίο είναι πιο αποτελεσματική από την παροχή συμβουλών γάμου, είναι εγγυημένη για να συμβεί αυτό.
Αν είστε ένας άνθρωπος, σας αξίζει να έχει μια γυναίκα που σε αγαπά με όλη την καρδιά και την ψυχή της. Ανάψτε την πυρκαγιά της για τους άνδρες, που είναι και πιο αποτελεσματική από την παροχή συμβουλών γάμου, είναι εγγυημένη για να συμβεί αυτό.
Λάβετε υπόψη ότι ο σύντροφός σας δεν χρειάζεται να κάνετε τίποτα. Μπορείτε να ξεκινήσετε αμέσως με το δικό σας πρόγραμμα και θα αρχίσουν να αντιμετωπίζουν το "νέο" σας.
تیز کی نسبت شادی مذاکرات
کیا میں پیش کرتے ہیں اتنی تیزی سے اور شادی کی روایتی مشاورت سے زیادہ موثر ہے. مجھے کوئی پرواہ نہیں اگر تم اس کے الفاظ نے سنا ہے ، "میں تم سے محبت میں نہیں ہوں ،" یا "میں نے آپ کے بارے میں اسی طرح محسوس نہیں کیا ،" یا "میں کچھ جگہ کی ضرورت ہے." میں یہاں ہوں آپ کو اس کے جذبات سکتے تبدیل کرنے کے لئے کہنا.
اگر تم دونوں نے شروع میں محبت کرتے تھے ، میں جانتا ہوں کہ میں نے تمہیں دوبارہ اس طرح محسوس کرنا ، فرق نہیں پڑتا کہ آپ کے دوست نے کہا کہ یا کس طرح کٹ تم ابھی کر سکتے ہیں.
یہ ہے میرا آپ سے وعدہ ہے. کوئی بات نہیں جو آپ کی صورت حال ہے ، یا تم پر کیا گزر جا رہے ہیں ، میں آپ کی مدد کر سکتے ہیں.
بہت سے نام نہاد انٹرنیٹ پر "ماہرین" جو پر اور کے بارے میں سب کے نتائج آپ ان ڈاؤن لوڈ کرنے کی کتابوں یا سی ڈی کے پروگرام کے ساتھ مل جائے گا پر جا رہے ہیں. تم سوچ بھی نہیں چاہتے کہ اگر یہ واقعی بہت اچھا تھا ، وہ آپ کو یا اس کا ایک اقتباس دیکھنے کے لئے مدد کرنا چاہیں گے؟
ان کی امید یہ ہے کہ اگر وہ آپ کو اس صفحہ پر کافی hype کے ساتھ فراہم کر سکتا ہے ، کیا تم نہیں دیکھ بھال کرے گا کہ آپ کے نمونے ان کے مصنوعات یا نہیں ان کے ساتھ رابطے میں طریقہ ہو سکتا ہے.
بہت سے لوگ شادی کے مشیر نے تمہیں نہیں بتایا خود کے بارے میں ایک بات یہ کہ انہوں نے یا تو ہو یا شادی شدہ نہیں ہے کئی بار طلاق دے دی گئی ہے. وہ دوسروں کو جب انہوں نے بھی اپنی زندگی کا کام نہیں کر سکتے ہیں سے شادی کرنے کے مشورہ مشورہ دے رہے ہیں.
میں نے خوشی سے دیا گیا 38 سال کے لئے ایک ہی شخص سے شادی کی اور 3 بڑے بچے ہیں. وہاں کچھ بھی نہیں ہے کہ میں نے تمہیں سکھایا ہے کہ میں نے کیا نہیں ہے یا اپنے آپ کو کہا جائے گا ہے. میں زندہ ہوں اور سانس لینے میں کیا سکھاتے ہیں. اس سیارے کو اس سے زیادہ شادیوں کو محفوظ سے میں نے کی ہے ، پر کوئی نہیں ہے.
اس ويب سائٹ پر آپ کو اپنے کام کے حوالہ جات کے لئے مدد تاکہ تم آرام محسوس یہ جان کر کہ آپ کو کچھ پتہ نہیں اور جو بھی ہے کر سکتے ہیں ایک کو بند کرنے میں کیا پیش کیا ہے دوسری. تم جاؤ ابھی کلک کریں اور اپنے ٹی وی انٹرویو کے دیکھ سکتے ہیں. اس طرح تم نے اپنے دل کیوں آپ اس ویب سائٹ میں ملے پتہ چل جائے گا.
شادی مذاکرات کو بھول جاؤ
کامیابی کی کہانیاں حصے میں آپ کو مرد اور عورتیں ، طلاق کے راستے پر جو سنگین شادی کے مسائل رہے تھے الگ الگ بہت سے تیار کرنا ، دوسروں کے بارے میں تفصیل سے پڑھیں ، اور آج بھی زیادہ محبت کے مقابلے میں وہ ان میں ہمیشہ ممکن خیال کر سکتے ہیں.
ان کی کہانیاں آواز کے طور پر ناقابل اعتماد طور پر ، نہ ان جوڑوں میں سے ایک کی شادی مشاورت کے ذریعے ان کے نتائج حاصل کیا. آپ بھی سیکھنا بالکل کیا اور جس طرح سے اپنے دوست کو فوری طور پر محسوس تبدیل کرنے کے لئے کیا کیا کہہ سکتی ہوں!
میں نے اپنی شادی کے مشورہ کے لئے متبادل طریقوں کے بارے میں امریکہ کی ٹوڈی ، نیو یارک ٹائمز ، لوگ ، خاندانی سرکل ، میٹرو اور Redbook میں حوالہ دیا ہے.
میں تمام اہم بات پتہ چلتا ہے پر شائع کیا ہے Oprah کئی بار بھی شامل ہیں ، اسی طرح ، آج دکھائیں اور باربرا ہے والٹر "دیکھیں." میرا یقین کرو ، تم پر نہ ہو ان سے کہیں قیمتی کچھ کئے بغیر کئی بار دکھاتا ہے.
حقیقت یہ ہے کہ ، اگر میرے پروگرام آپ کے لئے کام نہیں کر رہا ، اور کچھ نہیں کرے گا! مجھے معلوم ہے کہ تکبر سنہرے بالوں والی ، لیکن وہاں لوگوں کو اس نے اس کو واپس کرے گا لاکھوں ہیں. 1 دس لاکھ سے زیادہ پروگرام فروخت کیا گیا ہے اور شادی نصیحت کرنے والوں کو ، ماہرین نفسیات اور پادری اپنے گاہکوں کو سال کے لئے اپنے پروگرام کی سفارش کی ہے. کیوں؟ کیونکہ وہ واقعی کام کرتے ہیں.
یہاں صرف لوگوں کے لئے جو ہے میرے پروگراموں کے ذریعے کی گئی مدد سے کچھ قیمتیں ہیں. مزید مثالوں کے لیے یہاں کلک کریں.
میرے شوہر کی اٹیچی بھری ہوئی تھی جب میں نے تمہیں ٹی وی پر دیکھا. انہوں نے مجھے بتایا کہ وہ اب مجھ سے محبت کرتا تھا اور باہر منتقل. میں تباہ ہو گیا تھا جب مجھے پتہ چلا کہ وہ ایک چکر چل رہا تھا. چونکہ وہ شادی کے مشورہ سے انکار کر دیا مجھے کہیں نہیں تھا کی طرف متوجہ. تم نے مجھے سکھایا کس طرح میری شادی کے لئے لڑنا اور میرے شوہر واپس جیت. تم نے واقعی اس کا جواب سب کو میری درخواست پر کیا گیا. اب ہم سب کو ہم جانتے ہیں کے حسد کر رہے ہیں اور وہاں میرے دماغ میں ایک شک ہے کہ ہم بوڑھے ہو جاؤ اور ساتھ میں کریں گے نہیں ہے. یہ واقعی ایک چمتکار تھا! آپ کا شکریہ. سارا سی --
میری بیوی اور میں نے 6 ماہ کے لئے کیا گیا ہے شادی مشاورت کی جا رہی جب میں نے دیکھا تم نے ٹی وی پر انٹرویو. میری بیوی نے اس بات کا یقین تھا کہ وہ نہیں محبت مجھ سے اور شادی مشاورت کی اس کے دل کو تبدیل نہیں کیا گیا. تم میری آخری امید اور لڑکے نے آپ کے ذریعے آئے تھے! تم نے اسے احساس ہوا کہ نیچے کیا وہ سچ میں نے گہری مجھ سے محبت کرتے. کرنے کے لئے ہم پر اب دیکھو کسی کو یقین ہے کہ ہم نے تقریبا نے اسے کھول کر برخاست کریں گے. میرے دل کی گہرائی سے شکریہ. جیک این --
آسان کی نسبت شادی مذاکرات
میرا پروگرام آسان ، کھیل ، تفریح مہیا کرنے اور سب سے بہترین سرمایہ کاری کیا تم نے کبھی کر دے گا ہے. یہ ایک خوبصورت boxed سی ڈی سیٹ میں دستیاب ہے یا آپ اسے اپنے آئپاڈ یا MP3 پلیئر کے لئے ڈاؤن لوڈ ، اتارنا فوری طور پر کر سکتے ہیں.
اگر تم ایک عورت ہو ، تم ایک شخص ہے جس نے تم سب کو اس کے دل اور روح سے محبت کرتا ہے اسی قابل ہیں. نور عورتوں کے لئے اس کی دوزخ کی) آگ ہے ، جو شادی کے مشورہ سے زیادہ موثر ہے ، کرنا ہے کہ کیا ہونے کی ضمانت دی ہے.
اگر آپ کے پاس آدمی ہو ، تم ایک عورت ہے جو تم سب اس کے دل اور روح سے محبت کرتا ہے اسی قابل ہیں.نور مردوں کے لئے اس کی دوزخ کی) آگ ہے ، جو بھی ہے شادی کی مشاورت سے زیادہ موثر ، کر لیں کہ کیا ہونے کی ضمانت دی ہے.
یاد رکھیں کہ آپ کے دوست ایک کام کرنا نہیں ہے. تم ابھی اپنے پروگرام کے ساتھ شروع حاصل کر سکتے ہیں اور انہوں نے "نئے" تم سے شروع جواب دیں گے.
أسرع من الاستشارات الزواج
ما أقدم الكثير من أسرع وأكثر فعالية من تقديم المشورة الزواج التقليدي. لا يهمني إذا كنت قد سمعت عبارة "أنا لست في الحب معك بعد الآن" ، أو "لا أشعر بنفس الطريقة عنك ،" أو "انا بحاجة الى بعض الفضاء." انا هنا لاقول لكم ان التغيير يمكن أن المشاعر.
إذا كانت كل من كنت في الحب في البداية ، وأنا أعلم أنني يمكن أن تحصل على مثل هذا الشعور مرة أخرى ، بغض النظر عن ما لم الخاص بك وقالت قطع أو كيف أنت الآن.
هنا هو وعدي لك. بغض النظر عن الوضع الخاص بك ، أو ما كنت تمر ، لا أستطيع مساعدتك.
وهناك العديد من ما يسمى ب "الخبراء" على شبكة الانترنت الذي يستمر وعلى النتائج عن كل ما ستحصل عليه مع كتبهم أو تحميل البرامج المضغوطة. لن كنت تعتقد انه اذا كانت جيدة حقا ، فإنها تريد لك الاستماع أو مشاهدة مقتطفات من ذلك؟
أملهم هو أنه إذا أنها يمكن أن توفر لك ما يكفي من الضجيج على الصفحة ، فإنك لن الرعاية التي لم تتمكن من عينة منتجاتها أو وسيلة للحصول على اتصال معهم.
المستشارين زواج كثيرة لا أقول لكم شيئا عن أنفسهم لأنهم إما أن تكون غير متزوجة أو قد طلق عدة مرات. انهم يقدمون المشورة زواج المشورة للآخرين عندما لا يستطيع العمل حتى حياتهم الخاصة.
لقد كنت متزوجا بسعادة للرجل نفسه لمدة 38 عاما ولها 3 أطفال نمت. ليس هناك ما سوف يعلمك ان لم تكن قد فعلت أنا نفسي أو قال. أعيش وأتنفس ما أعلم. لا يوجد أحد على هذا الكوكب الذي أنقذ أكثر من الزواج لدي.
على هذا الموقع يمكنك الاستماع إلى مقتطفات من عملي بحيث يمكنك أن تشعر بالراحة وأنت تعرف أنك لن تجد أي شيء آخر حتى أنها في المرتبة الثانية على ما لدي لهذا العرض. يمكنك الآن الذهاب فوق الحق ومشاهدة التلفزيون مقابلتي. بهذه الطريقة سوف تعرف في قلبك لماذا وجدت في هذا الموقع.
ننسى الزواج المشورة
في قسم قصص النجاح يمكنك أن تقرأ بالتفصيل عن الرجال والنساء الذين كانوا لديها مشاكل خطيرة زواج ، وكثير استعداد لفصل ، والبعض الآخر على وشك الطلاق ، واليوم هي في الحب أكثر مما فكرت ممكن.
كما لا يمكن تصديقه لأن هذه القصص السليمة ، ولا واحد من هؤلاء الأزواج هذه النتائج من خلال تقديم المشورة الزواج. يمكنك أيضا تعلم بالضبط ما يقول ويفعل لتغيير الطريقة التي لم يشعر بك على الفور!
لقد اقتبست في اليوم الولايات المتحدة الأمريكية ، نيويورك تايمز ، والشعب ، دائرة الأسرة ، عالمي والكتاب الأحمر حول أساليب بديلة لتقديم المشورة لي الزواج.
ويبدو لي في كل البرامج الحوارية الرئيسية ، بما في ذلك مرات عديدة أوبرا ، وكذلك ، وإظهار اليوم وباربرا والتر "رأي". ثق بي ، وكنت لا تحصل على هذه العروض عدة مرات دون أن يقول شيئا ذا قيمة.
والحقيقة هي ، إذا برامج بلدي لا عمل لك ، ولا شيء آخر سوف! وأعرف أن أصوات متكبر ولكن هناك مئات الآلاف من الناس التي من شأنها دعم ذلك. وقد تم بيع أكثر من 1 مليون الزواج البرامج والمستشارين وعلماء النفس ورجال الدين وأوصت بلادي برامج لعملائها لسنوات. لماذا؟ لأنهم حقا العمل.
هنا مجرد أمثلة قليلة من الناس يقتبس التي ساعدت من قبل برامج بلدي. لمزيد من الأمثلة ، انقر هنا.
كان زوجي حقيبة معبأة عندما رأيتك على شاشة التلفزيون. وقال لي انه لم يعد يحبها ، وكان لي الخروج. دمرت أنا عندما اكتشفت انه كان وجود علاقة غرامية. منذ رفض الزواج المشورة كان لي مكان آخر لتحويل. علمتني كيف للقتال من أجل الفوز زواجي وزوجي مرة أخرى. لقد كنت حقا الإجابة على جميع صلواتي. ونحن الآن موضع حسد من الجميع ونحن نعرف وليس هناك شك في ذهني أننا لن نشيخ معا. انها حقا معجزة! شكرا لك. -- سارة جيم
وأنا وزوجتي على الذهاب الى الزواج المشورة لمدة 6 أشهر عندما رأيتك مقابلات على شاشة التلفزيون. زوجتي كانت متأكدة أنها لم تعد تحبني والمشورة زواج لم تغير رأيها. لقد كنت آمل مشاركة وصبي هل تأتي من خلال! أنت جعلت لها ندرك أن في أعماقي أنها لم تحبني حقا. وينظرون إلينا الآن ، لن يصدق احد ان كنا نسميها تقريبا انسحبت. شكرا من أعماق قلبي. -- جاك ن.
أسهل من الزواج المشورة
برنامجي هو سهلة وممتعة ، مسلية وأفضل استثمار التي سوف تجعل من أي وقت مضى. وهي متاحة في مجموعة الأقراص محاصر جميلة أو يمكنك تحميل البرنامج على الفور الحصول على اي بود الخاص بك أو مشغل MP3.
إذا كنت امرأة ، فأنت تستحق أن يكون الرجل الذي يحبك من كل قلبه وروحه. مكفول ضوء النار صاحب بالنسبة للمرأة ، التي هي أكثر فعالية من الزواج المشورة ، لتحقيق ذلك.
إذا كنت رجل ، أنت تستحق أن تكون هناك امرأة الذي يحبك من كل قلبها وروحها. مكفول ضوء النار صاحبة للرجال ، والتي هي أيضا أكثر فعالية من الزواج المشورة ، لتحقيق ذلك.
نضع في اعتبارنا أن شريك حياتك لا يجب أن تفعل شيئا. يمكنك أن تبدأ على الفور مع البرنامج الخاص بك وانها سوف تبدأ الاستجابة ل"الجديد" لك.
Thursday, March 10, 2011
Credit Counselling Society Business Card
The Credit Counselling Society is a registered non-profit service based in Vancouver and since opening in 1996, have helped over 180,000 people in Western Canada. We created this unique business card for them by reproducing a plastic “credit card” and then cutting it in half. The name of the client and telephone
number were embossed on the business card in the same way they would appear as a card holder’s name and credit card number on a real credit card.
Agency: Rethink Canada
Creative directors: Chris Staples and Ian Grais
Art director: Carson Ting
Account Manager: Amy Pelletier
Producer: Kerry Bhangu
Studio artist: Jonathon Cesar
Photographer: Clinton Hussey
Client: Credit Counselling Society, Vancouver Canada
number were embossed on the business card in the same way they would appear as a card holder’s name and credit card number on a real credit card.
Agency: Rethink Canada
Creative directors: Chris Staples and Ian Grais
Art director: Carson Ting
Account Manager: Amy Pelletier
Producer: Kerry Bhangu
Studio artist: Jonathon Cesar
Photographer: Clinton Hussey
Client: Credit Counselling Society, Vancouver Canada
Wednesday, March 9, 2011
Online Counseling Website Launches
Mar 06, 2011 – 7th March 2011 – Poole, UK /… Following 17 years of success treating people in the Bournemouth, Poole and Dorset area, Dolphin Hypnotherapy Practice has introduced a groundbreaking new internet service allowing patients to receive fully qualified help via online counseling consultations.
Onlinecounseling.org.uk offers one-on-one sessions via telephone, video conference, live chat or email. Clients can book an online consultation for just £50 ($80) and choose a treatment method of their choice. The system is active 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, and automatically lists the user’s time zone so they can easily see all available appointments.
Using the Online Counseling website, patients can receive relationship counseling, seek help for confidence building, beating phobias, as well as overcoming depression, anxiety, panic attacks, quitting smoking and much more (view http://www.onlinecounseling.org.uk/counseling-services/ for a full list).
Online Counseling appointments are conducted with Senior Consultant Mr Trevor Roberts, who is highly experienced in psychotherapy, psychology, psychoanalysis, counseling and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT).
Trevor Roberts, Online Counseling owner and qualified counselor for Dolphin Hypnotherapy Practice, says: “Help is something we all need sometimes, but we live in an instant world where time is as precious a commodity as money – perhaps even more so.
“The great benefit of Online Counseling is that you can get live counseling and psychotherapy anywhere in the world, quickly – and often instantly.
“I have had the privilege of working with hundreds of clients over the years at Dolphin Hypnotherapy Practice in Poole. Seeing the positive changes they have made in their lives and relationships through our work together is encouraging, and I am thrilled to extend this help worldwide through Online Counseling.”
Patients have already provided high praise for Online Counseling, including people from the USA, Australia and Canada. Testimonials can be viewed on the website.
For more information, visit http://www.onlinecounseling.org.uk, follow the website on Twitter at http://twitter.com/Web_Counseling, follow Trevor Roberts on Twitter at http://twitter.com/Dolphinhypno or like the Online Counseling Facebook page at http://www.facebook.com/pages/Online-Counseling/180203182024964.
Onlinecounseling.org.uk offers one-on-one sessions via telephone, video conference, live chat or email. Clients can book an online consultation for just £50 ($80) and choose a treatment method of their choice. The system is active 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, and automatically lists the user’s time zone so they can easily see all available appointments.
Using the Online Counseling website, patients can receive relationship counseling, seek help for confidence building, beating phobias, as well as overcoming depression, anxiety, panic attacks, quitting smoking and much more (view http://www.onlinecounseling.org.uk/counseling-services/ for a full list).
Online Counseling appointments are conducted with Senior Consultant Mr Trevor Roberts, who is highly experienced in psychotherapy, psychology, psychoanalysis, counseling and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT).
Trevor Roberts, Online Counseling owner and qualified counselor for Dolphin Hypnotherapy Practice, says: “Help is something we all need sometimes, but we live in an instant world where time is as precious a commodity as money – perhaps even more so.
“The great benefit of Online Counseling is that you can get live counseling and psychotherapy anywhere in the world, quickly – and often instantly.
“I have had the privilege of working with hundreds of clients over the years at Dolphin Hypnotherapy Practice in Poole. Seeing the positive changes they have made in their lives and relationships through our work together is encouraging, and I am thrilled to extend this help worldwide through Online Counseling.”
Patients have already provided high praise for Online Counseling, including people from the USA, Australia and Canada. Testimonials can be viewed on the website.
For more information, visit http://www.onlinecounseling.org.uk, follow the website on Twitter at http://twitter.com/Web_Counseling, follow Trevor Roberts on Twitter at http://twitter.com/Dolphinhypno or like the Online Counseling Facebook page at http://www.facebook.com/pages/Online-Counseling/180203182024964.
Saturday, March 5, 2011
Win Back Your Girlfriend – The Right Way
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Whether it’s an amicable breakup or an ugly one, the truth is breaking up is hard to do, and men can be devastated by it. If the thought of moving on with someone else does not appeal to you, if you just can’t imagine living a life without her, you obviously still have feelings for your ex. So, if you don’t want to let go and think your love is still worth fighting for, go for it. Here are some thoughts to help you get your girlfriend back.
First, assess the situation. Take a hard and honest look at yourself and the relationship. Do your best to figure out went wrong and learn from it. There are many reasons why a relationship ends but pointing fingers will never help. Ask yourself penetrating questions from different perspectives. Scrutinizing each aspect of the breakup is important because it can help determine if the relationship is salvageable. If the relationship is not fixable, it’s time to let go. But, if there is still hope for reconciliation, then seize that hope and work from it.
Now look at yourself. What can you do to improve? List all your qualities, good ones as well as bad. Do what you can to limit or erase the bad habits you have that may have damaged the relationship. Yes, it is hard to let go of old bad habits but if you really want to win her back, some sacrifices are worth making. After that, focus on the good. Remember the things your girlfriend always said she loved about you, the things that made her fall in love with you in the first place. Bring back the man who swept her off her feet. Make it natural so that the whole thing will not look scripted. An improvement in your physical appearance can work wonders too. Include a good haircut and new threads when meeting her, or even something old she found flattering on you. You just might tickle her senses with your sense of style.
Once you have finished overhauling yourself, try to contact her. Set up a date or a casual meeting with her. Grab a coffee, watch a movie or engage in an activity you both enjoy. Consider this befriending the start of your challenge to win your girlfriend back. It’s best not to put much romance in this first encounter as that could scare her away, but take cues from her. If you can feel and see that she’s wanting to be a little romantic on the date, accommodate her by all means. Just don’t rush. You want to be smart about it. Don’t rush into any conversation about getting back together. Just emphasize your role as a friend. If she shows any sign of returning your feelings and intentions, then by all means go with that.
If the above-mentioned tips work, the last part is easy. It’s as easy as breathing. Just let nature take its course. After all, it was the powerful nature of attraction that connected you two in the first place. So yes, the ways to win back a girlfriend are varied, but in the end, it’s your personal style and the things that first made your girlfriend fall in love with you that are the most important. Be your thoughtful and attentive best and with luck, you’ll have her back in your arms in no time at all.
Whether it’s an amicable breakup or an ugly one, the truth is breaking up is hard to do, and men can be devastated by it. If the thought of moving on with someone else does not appeal to you, if you just can’t imagine living a life without her, you obviously still have feelings for your ex. So, if you don’t want to let go and think your love is still worth fighting for, go for it. Here are some thoughts to help you get your girlfriend back.
First, assess the situation. Take a hard and honest look at yourself and the relationship. Do your best to figure out went wrong and learn from it. There are many reasons why a relationship ends but pointing fingers will never help. Ask yourself penetrating questions from different perspectives. Scrutinizing each aspect of the breakup is important because it can help determine if the relationship is salvageable. If the relationship is not fixable, it’s time to let go. But, if there is still hope for reconciliation, then seize that hope and work from it.
Now look at yourself. What can you do to improve? List all your qualities, good ones as well as bad. Do what you can to limit or erase the bad habits you have that may have damaged the relationship. Yes, it is hard to let go of old bad habits but if you really want to win her back, some sacrifices are worth making. After that, focus on the good. Remember the things your girlfriend always said she loved about you, the things that made her fall in love with you in the first place. Bring back the man who swept her off her feet. Make it natural so that the whole thing will not look scripted. An improvement in your physical appearance can work wonders too. Include a good haircut and new threads when meeting her, or even something old she found flattering on you. You just might tickle her senses with your sense of style.
Once you have finished overhauling yourself, try to contact her. Set up a date or a casual meeting with her. Grab a coffee, watch a movie or engage in an activity you both enjoy. Consider this befriending the start of your challenge to win your girlfriend back. It’s best not to put much romance in this first encounter as that could scare her away, but take cues from her. If you can feel and see that she’s wanting to be a little romantic on the date, accommodate her by all means. Just don’t rush. You want to be smart about it. Don’t rush into any conversation about getting back together. Just emphasize your role as a friend. If she shows any sign of returning your feelings and intentions, then by all means go with that.
If the above-mentioned tips work, the last part is easy. It’s as easy as breathing. Just let nature take its course. After all, it was the powerful nature of attraction that connected you two in the first place. So yes, the ways to win back a girlfriend are varied, but in the end, it’s your personal style and the things that first made your girlfriend fall in love with you that are the most important. Be your thoughtful and attentive best and with luck, you’ll have her back in your arms in no time at all.
Wednesday, March 2, 2011
Trauma counselling about 'reactivating coping skills'
Counselling would be an important tool to help people affected by the Christchurch earthquake, trauma specialists said yesterday.
"The sort of counselling you do in a trauma situation is quite different.
"It's not focused on in-depth feelings and re-living the event.
"It's about attending to the present and reactivating people's normal coping skills," Relationship Services Whakawhanaungatanga (RSW) Otago-Southland clinical leader Christine James said.
A trained trauma counsellor, Mrs James said many survivors of the earthquake would battle with their experiences for a long time to come.
"It's the flashback-type stuff people can struggle with.
"Smells and noise can bring it back and it can hit like a wave.
"When something like this hits, it hits on top of everything else people are coping with, like domestic issues," she said.
"People have to get reconnected to the support systems they had before it happened.
"People need a connection when they're hurting and for someone to say `you're not alone in this'.
"It's a way to help cope with grief and loss."
RSW counsellors and staff had also been personally affected by the tragedy, RSW Otago-Southland area manager Howard Randal said.
"Our Christchurch office is no more. The Christchurch office was on the fifth floor of the CTV building.
"We lost one staff member and there were 15 survivors," he said.
The Christchurch office had dealt with 500 cases from the first earthquake on September 4 until it was destroyed last Tuesday.
"All calls to Christchurch are now being picked up in Wellington and being diverted to different areas, including Dunedin, on a roster basis," Mr Randal said.
"But we can't provide face-to-face counselling.
"Increasingly, though, we're seeing more and more people who have relocated to Dunedin and we can help them here.
"People have relocated all around the country and they're suddenly finding themselves in a situation that's unfamiliar and with loss of job and no income and wondering what the future holds," he said.
"People are dealing with grief and loss now, but there will be long-term problems.
"Over time, the needs will change."
Dunedin School of Medicine senior lecturer in psychological medicine Dr Christopher Gale suggested last week Christchurch needed practical help and support from family and friends more than "a raft of counsellors".
Need help?
For counselling assistance, contact 0800 RELATE (0800 735 283) or visit www.relate.org.nz
"The sort of counselling you do in a trauma situation is quite different.
"It's not focused on in-depth feelings and re-living the event.
"It's about attending to the present and reactivating people's normal coping skills," Relationship Services Whakawhanaungatanga (RSW) Otago-Southland clinical leader Christine James said.
A trained trauma counsellor, Mrs James said many survivors of the earthquake would battle with their experiences for a long time to come.
"It's the flashback-type stuff people can struggle with.
"Smells and noise can bring it back and it can hit like a wave.
"When something like this hits, it hits on top of everything else people are coping with, like domestic issues," she said.
"People have to get reconnected to the support systems they had before it happened.
"People need a connection when they're hurting and for someone to say `you're not alone in this'.
"It's a way to help cope with grief and loss."
RSW counsellors and staff had also been personally affected by the tragedy, RSW Otago-Southland area manager Howard Randal said.
"Our Christchurch office is no more. The Christchurch office was on the fifth floor of the CTV building.
"We lost one staff member and there were 15 survivors," he said.
The Christchurch office had dealt with 500 cases from the first earthquake on September 4 until it was destroyed last Tuesday.
"All calls to Christchurch are now being picked up in Wellington and being diverted to different areas, including Dunedin, on a roster basis," Mr Randal said.
"But we can't provide face-to-face counselling.
"Increasingly, though, we're seeing more and more people who have relocated to Dunedin and we can help them here.
"People have relocated all around the country and they're suddenly finding themselves in a situation that's unfamiliar and with loss of job and no income and wondering what the future holds," he said.
"People are dealing with grief and loss now, but there will be long-term problems.
"Over time, the needs will change."
Dunedin School of Medicine senior lecturer in psychological medicine Dr Christopher Gale suggested last week Christchurch needed practical help and support from family and friends more than "a raft of counsellors".
"The sort of counselling you do in a trauma situation is quite different.
"It's not focused on in-depth feelings and re-living the event.
"It's about attending to the present and reactivating people's normal coping skills," Relationship Services Whakawhanaungatanga (RSW) Otago-Southland clinical leader Christine James said.
A trained trauma counsellor, Mrs James said many survivors of the earthquake would battle with their experiences for a long time to come.
"It's the flashback-type stuff people can struggle with.
"Smells and noise can bring it back and it can hit like a wave.
"When something like this hits, it hits on top of everything else people are coping with, like domestic issues," she said.
"People have to get reconnected to the support systems they had before it happened.
"People need a connection when they're hurting and for someone to say `you're not alone in this'.
"It's a way to help cope with grief and loss."
RSW counsellors and staff had also been personally affected by the tragedy, RSW Otago-Southland area manager Howard Randal said.
"Our Christchurch office is no more. The Christchurch office was on the fifth floor of the CTV building.
"We lost one staff member and there were 15 survivors," he said.
The Christchurch office had dealt with 500 cases from the first earthquake on September 4 until it was destroyed last Tuesday.
"All calls to Christchurch are now being picked up in Wellington and being diverted to different areas, including Dunedin, on a roster basis," Mr Randal said.
"But we can't provide face-to-face counselling.
"Increasingly, though, we're seeing more and more people who have relocated to Dunedin and we can help them here.
"People have relocated all around the country and they're suddenly finding themselves in a situation that's unfamiliar and with loss of job and no income and wondering what the future holds," he said.
"People are dealing with grief and loss now, but there will be long-term problems.
"Over time, the needs will change."
Dunedin School of Medicine senior lecturer in psychological medicine Dr Christopher Gale suggested last week Christchurch needed practical help and support from family and friends more than "a raft of counsellors".
Need help?
For counselling assistance, contact 0800 RELATE (0800 735 283) or visit www.relate.org.nz
"The sort of counselling you do in a trauma situation is quite different.
"It's not focused on in-depth feelings and re-living the event.
"It's about attending to the present and reactivating people's normal coping skills," Relationship Services Whakawhanaungatanga (RSW) Otago-Southland clinical leader Christine James said.
A trained trauma counsellor, Mrs James said many survivors of the earthquake would battle with their experiences for a long time to come.
"It's the flashback-type stuff people can struggle with.
"Smells and noise can bring it back and it can hit like a wave.
"When something like this hits, it hits on top of everything else people are coping with, like domestic issues," she said.
"People have to get reconnected to the support systems they had before it happened.
"People need a connection when they're hurting and for someone to say `you're not alone in this'.
"It's a way to help cope with grief and loss."
RSW counsellors and staff had also been personally affected by the tragedy, RSW Otago-Southland area manager Howard Randal said.
"Our Christchurch office is no more. The Christchurch office was on the fifth floor of the CTV building.
"We lost one staff member and there were 15 survivors," he said.
The Christchurch office had dealt with 500 cases from the first earthquake on September 4 until it was destroyed last Tuesday.
"All calls to Christchurch are now being picked up in Wellington and being diverted to different areas, including Dunedin, on a roster basis," Mr Randal said.
"But we can't provide face-to-face counselling.
"Increasingly, though, we're seeing more and more people who have relocated to Dunedin and we can help them here.
"People have relocated all around the country and they're suddenly finding themselves in a situation that's unfamiliar and with loss of job and no income and wondering what the future holds," he said.
"People are dealing with grief and loss now, but there will be long-term problems.
"Over time, the needs will change."
Dunedin School of Medicine senior lecturer in psychological medicine Dr Christopher Gale suggested last week Christchurch needed practical help and support from family and friends more than "a raft of counsellors".
Sunday, February 27, 2011
ABBA Counselling Project Hopes to Hit the Right Note
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Scotland's largest voluntary social care organisation is launching an innovative new counselling scheme in the Lothians next week.
The ABBA project, run by the Church of Scotland’s social care arm CrossReach, is a holistic approach to the treatment of anger, bullying, bereavement and abuse (ABBA).
And on Thursday 3rd March there will be a grand launch of the service at the St Andrew’s Centre in Dunbar.
ABBA complements the existing generic counselling service in East Lothian.
The creative therapeutic scheme aims to assist individuals and families suffering from these issues and support the communities in which they live. The project is free to use, but people are encouraged to make a donation as means allow.
CrossReach’s Lothians counselling manager, Jacqui Lindsay, said: “We are really excited about the opportunities that this new project will give us.
“Abuse, bullying, bereavement and anger are four huge issues facing adults and young people today.
“It will enable us to reach those most in need of our services in a creative and flexible way, whilst striving to support other professionals and individuals working alongside those struggling with these life affecting problems.”
The project has been part financed by the Scottish Government and the European Community Tyne Esk Leader 2007-13 programme.
Ms. Lindsay continued: “Without that financial support, we would not have been able to offer this extension to the counselling services already provided by CrossReach in the Lothians.”
Ends.
Notes to news desks:
All media are invited to the launch at St Andrew’s Centre, 9 Bayswell Road, Dunbar, EH42 1AB between 12 noon and 2pm on Thursday 3rd March. There will be an opportunity to speak to staff and volunteers about the project.
CrossReach Counselling: Lothians is one of 80 social care projects operated by CrossReach (Church of Scotland Social Care Council).
Scotland's largest voluntary social care organisation is launching an innovative new counselling scheme in the Lothians next week.
The ABBA project, run by the Church of Scotland’s social care arm CrossReach, is a holistic approach to the treatment of anger, bullying, bereavement and abuse (ABBA).
And on Thursday 3rd March there will be a grand launch of the service at the St Andrew’s Centre in Dunbar.
ABBA complements the existing generic counselling service in East Lothian.
The creative therapeutic scheme aims to assist individuals and families suffering from these issues and support the communities in which they live. The project is free to use, but people are encouraged to make a donation as means allow.
CrossReach’s Lothians counselling manager, Jacqui Lindsay, said: “We are really excited about the opportunities that this new project will give us.
“Abuse, bullying, bereavement and anger are four huge issues facing adults and young people today.
“It will enable us to reach those most in need of our services in a creative and flexible way, whilst striving to support other professionals and individuals working alongside those struggling with these life affecting problems.”
The project has been part financed by the Scottish Government and the European Community Tyne Esk Leader 2007-13 programme.
Ms. Lindsay continued: “Without that financial support, we would not have been able to offer this extension to the counselling services already provided by CrossReach in the Lothians.”
Ends.
Notes to news desks:
All media are invited to the launch at St Andrew’s Centre, 9 Bayswell Road, Dunbar, EH42 1AB between 12 noon and 2pm on Thursday 3rd March. There will be an opportunity to speak to staff and volunteers about the project.
CrossReach Counselling: Lothians is one of 80 social care projects operated by CrossReach (Church of Scotland Social Care Council).
Saturday, February 26, 2011
Brief psychotherapy
Brief psychotherapy or Brief therapy is an umbrella term for a variety of approaches to psychotherapy. It differs from other schools of therapy in that it emphasises (1) a focus on a specific problem and (2) direct intervention. In brief therapy, the therapist takes responsibility for working more pro-actively with the client in order to treat clinical and subjective conditions faster. It also emphasizes precise observation, utilization of natural resources, and temporary suspension of disbelief to consider new perspectives and multiple viewpoints.
Rather than the formal analysis of historical causes of distress, the primary approach of brief therapy is to help the client to view the present from a wider context and to utilize more functional understandings (not necessarily at a conscious level). By becoming aware of these new understandings, successful clients will de facto undergo spontaneous and generative change.
Brief therapy is often highly strategic, exploratory, and solution-based rather than problem-oriented. It is less concerned with how a problem arose than with the current factors sustaining it and preventing change. Brief therapists do not adhere to one "correct" approach, but rather accept that there being many paths, any of which may or may not in combination turn out to be ultimately beneficial.
Contents [hide]
1 Founding proponents of brief therapy
2 Notable therapists
3 See also
4 External links
[edit]Founding proponents of brief therapy
Milton Erickson was a master of brief therapy, using clinical hypnosis as his primary tool. To a great extent he developed this himself. His approach was popularized by Jay Haley, in the book "Uncommon therapy: The psychiatric techniques of Milton Erickson M.D."
"The analogy Erickson uses is that of a person who wants to change the course of a river. if he opposes the river by trying to block it, the river will merely go over and around him. But if he accepts the force of the river and diverts it in a new direction, the force of the river will cut a new channel." (Haley, "Uncommon therapy", p.24, emphasis in original)
Richard Bandler, the co-founder of neuro-linguistic programming, is another firm proponent of brief therapy. After many years of studying Erickson's therapeutic work, he wrote:
"It's easier to cure a phobia in ten minutes than in five years... I didn't realize that the speed with which you do things makes them last... I taught people the phobia cure. They'd do part of it one week, part of it the next, and part of it the week after. Then they'd come to me and say "It doesn't work!" If, however, you do it in five minutes, and repeat it till it happens very fast, the brain understands. That's part of how the brain learns... I discovered that the human mind does not learn slowly. It learns quickly. I didn't know that." (Time for a change, 1993, p.20)
Rather than the formal analysis of historical causes of distress, the primary approach of brief therapy is to help the client to view the present from a wider context and to utilize more functional understandings (not necessarily at a conscious level). By becoming aware of these new understandings, successful clients will de facto undergo spontaneous and generative change.
Brief therapy is often highly strategic, exploratory, and solution-based rather than problem-oriented. It is less concerned with how a problem arose than with the current factors sustaining it and preventing change. Brief therapists do not adhere to one "correct" approach, but rather accept that there being many paths, any of which may or may not in combination turn out to be ultimately beneficial.
Contents [hide]
1 Founding proponents of brief therapy
2 Notable therapists
3 See also
4 External links
[edit]Founding proponents of brief therapy
Milton Erickson was a master of brief therapy, using clinical hypnosis as his primary tool. To a great extent he developed this himself. His approach was popularized by Jay Haley, in the book "Uncommon therapy: The psychiatric techniques of Milton Erickson M.D."
"The analogy Erickson uses is that of a person who wants to change the course of a river. if he opposes the river by trying to block it, the river will merely go over and around him. But if he accepts the force of the river and diverts it in a new direction, the force of the river will cut a new channel." (Haley, "Uncommon therapy", p.24, emphasis in original)
Richard Bandler, the co-founder of neuro-linguistic programming, is another firm proponent of brief therapy. After many years of studying Erickson's therapeutic work, he wrote:
"It's easier to cure a phobia in ten minutes than in five years... I didn't realize that the speed with which you do things makes them last... I taught people the phobia cure. They'd do part of it one week, part of it the next, and part of it the week after. Then they'd come to me and say "It doesn't work!" If, however, you do it in five minutes, and repeat it till it happens very fast, the brain understands. That's part of how the brain learns... I discovered that the human mind does not learn slowly. It learns quickly. I didn't know that." (Time for a change, 1993, p.20)
Friday, February 25, 2011
Know of more fundraising events?
Let us know
in response to the tragic earthquake in Christchurch on Tuesday, several events across New Zealand have been organised to raise money for relief funds.
Concerts
Sunday, February 27:
• A Christchurch Relief Fundraiser - Auckland's indie bands have got together to hold their own Christchurch earthquake relief concert. Proceeds to the New Zealand Red Cross. Sunday, 6.30pm. Whammy Bar and Wine Cellar on K Rd, Auckland. Minimum $10 S donation. Click here for more info.
• Kotahitangata (One People) - Sola Rosa, King Kapisi, Homebrew, LA Mitchell, Anna Coddington and more. All proceeds to NZ Red Cross Earthquake Appeal. R18. Sale St, Freemans Bay, Auckland. From 5pm. Click here for more info.
• Opera with William Winitana - Christchurch earthquake benefit concert. Napier Botanical Gardens, Napier, 5pm to 7pm.
• Sirens - the water ballet by the Wet Hot Beauties. Parnell Baths, Judges Bay Road, Auckland from 6pm.
Saturday, March 5:
• Ghettozoid (UK) Christchurch Earthquake Fundraiser. 420 Night Club, K Road, Auckland, 6pm. Click here for more info.
Sports
Saturday, February 26:
• New Zealand Warriors vs Manly Sea Eagles. All proceeds from this NRL preseason game will go to the New Zealand Red Cross 2011 Earthquake Appeal. North Harbour Stadium, Albany, Auckland. Gates at 3.30pm, curtain-raiser 4pm, main game kick-off 6pm.
Theatre
Sunday, February 27:
• Well Hung - An Auckland Theatre Company production at the Maidment Theatre, Auckland. Proceeds will go to the New Zealand Red Cross 2011 Earthquake Appeal. 4pm.
Other
Saturday, February 26:
• Swim for Christchurch, 1km ocean swim at Auckland's Milford Beach. All proceeds to the Canterbury Earthquake appeal. You must bring and wear your own swim cap. Cash donations only. Sign up 7.30am, swim begins 8am. Click here for more info.
Wednesday, March 2 and Thursday, March 3:
• Bear Grylls - Star of the Discovery Channel's Man vs Wild, with Tiki Taane and comedian Cori Gonzalez. Proceeds to Canterbury Earthquake Relief Fundo and Wellington Children's Hospital. Auckland's Sky City Convention Centre on March 2 and at Wellington's Michael Fowler Centre on March 3. Tickets for the Auckland show through Dash Tickets and Wellington tickets through Ticketek.
Sunday, March 20
• 2011 Coatesville Classic Half Marathon and Fun Run. All proceeds to charity - $2500 to Coatesville Primary, $500 to Coatesville Scouts and remaining profit (up to $20,000) to Christchurch recovery funding. Click here for more info.
August
• NZ Kilimanjaro expedition. A team of New Zealanders and friends in London have decided to take on the challenge of climbing Mt Kilimanjaro, Africa's highest mountain, in August 2011 to help raise money for the Christchurch Earthquake Fund. They aim to raise $5895 (the height of Kilimanjaro in metres) and donate through the Red Cross Christchurch Earthquake Appeal. Click here to donate and email Chris Flack at cjflack@gmail.com if you'd like to be involved.
in response to the tragic earthquake in Christchurch on Tuesday, several events across New Zealand have been organised to raise money for relief funds.
Concerts
Sunday, February 27:
• A Christchurch Relief Fundraiser - Auckland's indie bands have got together to hold their own Christchurch earthquake relief concert. Proceeds to the New Zealand Red Cross. Sunday, 6.30pm. Whammy Bar and Wine Cellar on K Rd, Auckland. Minimum $10 S donation. Click here for more info.
• Kotahitangata (One People) - Sola Rosa, King Kapisi, Homebrew, LA Mitchell, Anna Coddington and more. All proceeds to NZ Red Cross Earthquake Appeal. R18. Sale St, Freemans Bay, Auckland. From 5pm. Click here for more info.
• Opera with William Winitana - Christchurch earthquake benefit concert. Napier Botanical Gardens, Napier, 5pm to 7pm.
• Sirens - the water ballet by the Wet Hot Beauties. Parnell Baths, Judges Bay Road, Auckland from 6pm.
Saturday, March 5:
• Ghettozoid (UK) Christchurch Earthquake Fundraiser. 420 Night Club, K Road, Auckland, 6pm. Click here for more info.
Sports
Saturday, February 26:
• New Zealand Warriors vs Manly Sea Eagles. All proceeds from this NRL preseason game will go to the New Zealand Red Cross 2011 Earthquake Appeal. North Harbour Stadium, Albany, Auckland. Gates at 3.30pm, curtain-raiser 4pm, main game kick-off 6pm.
Theatre
Sunday, February 27:
• Well Hung - An Auckland Theatre Company production at the Maidment Theatre, Auckland. Proceeds will go to the New Zealand Red Cross 2011 Earthquake Appeal. 4pm.
Other
Saturday, February 26:
• Swim for Christchurch, 1km ocean swim at Auckland's Milford Beach. All proceeds to the Canterbury Earthquake appeal. You must bring and wear your own swim cap. Cash donations only. Sign up 7.30am, swim begins 8am. Click here for more info.
Wednesday, March 2 and Thursday, March 3:
• Bear Grylls - Star of the Discovery Channel's Man vs Wild, with Tiki Taane and comedian Cori Gonzalez. Proceeds to Canterbury Earthquake Relief Fundo and Wellington Children's Hospital. Auckland's Sky City Convention Centre on March 2 and at Wellington's Michael Fowler Centre on March 3. Tickets for the Auckland show through Dash Tickets and Wellington tickets through Ticketek.
Sunday, March 20
• 2011 Coatesville Classic Half Marathon and Fun Run. All proceeds to charity - $2500 to Coatesville Primary, $500 to Coatesville Scouts and remaining profit (up to $20,000) to Christchurch recovery funding. Click here for more info.
August
• NZ Kilimanjaro expedition. A team of New Zealanders and friends in London have decided to take on the challenge of climbing Mt Kilimanjaro, Africa's highest mountain, in August 2011 to help raise money for the Christchurch Earthquake Fund. They aim to raise $5895 (the height of Kilimanjaro in metres) and donate through the Red Cross Christchurch Earthquake Appeal. Click here to donate and email Chris Flack at cjflack@gmail.com if you'd like to be involved.
Wednesday, February 23, 2011
Starting over again
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Psychologist EMILY KARIUKI, 28 went to college to study business and later biology but today she owns her own counselling practice. She spoke to Wambui Thimba
Tell us a little about your occupation?
I am a counselling psychologist and I run my own psychological practice known as Emiwell Counselling Services situated in Kilimani, Nairobi.
Why did you go into self-employment?
First, I have a one-year-old daughter and I wanted to have a job that gives me the flexibility to work my own hours so that I can ensure that I spend quality time with her.
Second, I wanted to challenge the view that there is no market for people who have done psychology in this country. There is a great need for psychological services proven by the rising number of divorces, cases of depression, suicide attempts, paedophilia, rape, addiction, conflicts within families, murder and even road rage, which is an anger management issue. The list is endless.
What were you doing prior to starting your company?
I was working at a drug rehabilitation centre in Karen as part of my Master’s in Counselling Psychology course requirement. I completed 500 supervised hours of counselling work, which included individual therapy, couples therapy, group therapy, family therapy and teaching of life skills.
Have you always wanted to be a psychologist?
Initially, I was studying business in an Australian University, which was my parents’ choice, then I later changed to human biology. I discovered my love for psychology when I undertook two psychology courses as part of my human biology degree. I would spend most of my time reading psychology books instead of biology books, which I only read during exam time.
EMILY KARIUKI
After my father passed away in 2004, I decided to relocate to Kenya because I wanted to be close to my mother and siblings. It was then that I decided to try to transfer my course credits to a public university in Nairobi so as to continue my human biology studies but the process was going to take close to a year. I talked to my mother about pursuing psychology and she was very supportive. I applied for psychology at USIU and begun my studies.
How was studying in Australia different from Kenya?
I had freedom to do whatever I wanted, which was not what I was used to at home. Therefore, I had to learn some self-discipline, as it was very easy to get carried away in the fast life.
During the first year there I spent most of the time trying to fit in with the crowd there but I soon realised that I would end up losing direction completely. I was lucky that I was there with my elder sister so I did have a support system but we both still missed being home.
What were the challenges of coming back home and starting from scratch?
My main challenge was matching up to my peers as I felt they were all working yet here I was starting my first year of university all over again. This experience taught me that I should always hold myself up to my own standards and not focus on what others are doing. This attitude helped me focus on my own goals and consequently led me to excel in my studies and profession.
What services do you offer?
Pre-marital therapy is my main focus now due to the rising numbers of divorce in this country. If people engage in professional pre-marital counselling, it reduces their chances of getting divorced as they have explored the main issues likely to bring about differences in their union.
Other services include family therapy, self-improvement, addiction, after care, stress management, and couples therapy. I also want to venture into career counselling services.
What are the challenges of starting your own business?
The main challenge was raising capital to start the business and to find an affordable office, but I thank God that I have a great support system that helped me raise capital and helped me find a suitable location.
Reaching out to the clients can also be difficult at times. I do get numerous people calling to enquire about the services but not all of them manage to gather the courage to taking that first step. Most eventually call again and make an appointment.
What has been the highlight of your career so far?
My greatest achievement so far would definitely be motherhood. My daughter Amilia has changed my whole being. She is my motivation to be at my best. I am also proud of receiving the highest female graduate GPA (grade point average) award last year at USIU. The highlight of my career would be starting a successful psychological practice.
Long-term goals
I plan to grow my client base in order to offer employment to other psychologists of different specialisations.
Psychologist EMILY KARIUKI, 28 went to college to study business and later biology but today she owns her own counselling practice. She spoke to Wambui Thimba
Tell us a little about your occupation?
I am a counselling psychologist and I run my own psychological practice known as Emiwell Counselling Services situated in Kilimani, Nairobi.
Why did you go into self-employment?
First, I have a one-year-old daughter and I wanted to have a job that gives me the flexibility to work my own hours so that I can ensure that I spend quality time with her.
Second, I wanted to challenge the view that there is no market for people who have done psychology in this country. There is a great need for psychological services proven by the rising number of divorces, cases of depression, suicide attempts, paedophilia, rape, addiction, conflicts within families, murder and even road rage, which is an anger management issue. The list is endless.
What were you doing prior to starting your company?
I was working at a drug rehabilitation centre in Karen as part of my Master’s in Counselling Psychology course requirement. I completed 500 supervised hours of counselling work, which included individual therapy, couples therapy, group therapy, family therapy and teaching of life skills.
Have you always wanted to be a psychologist?
Initially, I was studying business in an Australian University, which was my parents’ choice, then I later changed to human biology. I discovered my love for psychology when I undertook two psychology courses as part of my human biology degree. I would spend most of my time reading psychology books instead of biology books, which I only read during exam time.
EMILY KARIUKI
After my father passed away in 2004, I decided to relocate to Kenya because I wanted to be close to my mother and siblings. It was then that I decided to try to transfer my course credits to a public university in Nairobi so as to continue my human biology studies but the process was going to take close to a year. I talked to my mother about pursuing psychology and she was very supportive. I applied for psychology at USIU and begun my studies.
How was studying in Australia different from Kenya?
I had freedom to do whatever I wanted, which was not what I was used to at home. Therefore, I had to learn some self-discipline, as it was very easy to get carried away in the fast life.
During the first year there I spent most of the time trying to fit in with the crowd there but I soon realised that I would end up losing direction completely. I was lucky that I was there with my elder sister so I did have a support system but we both still missed being home.
What were the challenges of coming back home and starting from scratch?
My main challenge was matching up to my peers as I felt they were all working yet here I was starting my first year of university all over again. This experience taught me that I should always hold myself up to my own standards and not focus on what others are doing. This attitude helped me focus on my own goals and consequently led me to excel in my studies and profession.
What services do you offer?
Pre-marital therapy is my main focus now due to the rising numbers of divorce in this country. If people engage in professional pre-marital counselling, it reduces their chances of getting divorced as they have explored the main issues likely to bring about differences in their union.
Other services include family therapy, self-improvement, addiction, after care, stress management, and couples therapy. I also want to venture into career counselling services.
What are the challenges of starting your own business?
The main challenge was raising capital to start the business and to find an affordable office, but I thank God that I have a great support system that helped me raise capital and helped me find a suitable location.
Reaching out to the clients can also be difficult at times. I do get numerous people calling to enquire about the services but not all of them manage to gather the courage to taking that first step. Most eventually call again and make an appointment.
What has been the highlight of your career so far?
My greatest achievement so far would definitely be motherhood. My daughter Amilia has changed my whole being. She is my motivation to be at my best. I am also proud of receiving the highest female graduate GPA (grade point average) award last year at USIU. The highlight of my career would be starting a successful psychological practice.
Long-term goals
I plan to grow my client base in order to offer employment to other psychologists of different specialisations.
What Is Exit Counseling?
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Exit counseling is a type of intervention targeted toward individuals who are involved with a cult. It is also known as strategic intervention therapy, thought reform consultation, or simply, cult intervention. This type of intervention is used to counsel families of cult members as well as cult members themselves. It is usually aimed at trying to get a cult member to see the truth, repairing family relations, and integrating individuals back into society, if necessary.
Many times, family members who are worried about their loved ones being involved with a possible cult are the first ones to initiate exit counseling. Members who have been kicked out of, or walked away from, a cult may also look into exit counseling. The majority of individuals who participate begin this counseling voluntarily, meaning that they are not forced or coerced in any way.
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Family members who inquire about exit counseling will usually have initial meetings with an exit counselor. This counselor will usually prepare the family for the subsequent counseling sessions that may take place. They will also provide background information on cults in general and possibly the specific cult in question.
After the initial meetings, it is often the family's job to convince the cult member to meet with the counselor. It is important that the cult member enters exit counseling willingly. He should not be forced, coerced, or tricked. Many experts agree that forcing him will often cause him not to trust people who are not involved with the cult, or who he thinks of as outsiders.
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During the exit counseling sessions, an individual is also allowed to leave or take a break whenever he wants. Regardless of how erroneous they may seem to other people, his opinions are always respected as well. Counselors may try to educate the cult member on his specific cult, cults in general, or mind control tactics. In some cases, former cult members may even be brought in to speak with him. Based on the information provided to them, most cult members will then make a decision on whether to stay involved with the group or leave.
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If individuals choose to stay involved with the cult after exit counseling sessions, they are free to do so. Counselors will then work with the family members, teaching them the best ways to communicate with their loved one. For example, they must learn to be caring and non-judgmental. Otherwise, their loved one may feel even more alienated and decide against turning to his family for help if he ever decides to leave the cult.
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Deciding to leave can be one of the hardest decisions for a cult member to make. He may have problems adjusting to life outside of the cult. Some specific problems can include feelings of guilt or depression, problems making decisions, paranoia, or anxiety. Exit counseling can help these types of individuals learn or relearn how to live outside of a cult.
Exit counseling is a type of intervention targeted toward individuals who are involved with a cult. It is also known as strategic intervention therapy, thought reform consultation, or simply, cult intervention. This type of intervention is used to counsel families of cult members as well as cult members themselves. It is usually aimed at trying to get a cult member to see the truth, repairing family relations, and integrating individuals back into society, if necessary.
Many times, family members who are worried about their loved ones being involved with a possible cult are the first ones to initiate exit counseling. Members who have been kicked out of, or walked away from, a cult may also look into exit counseling. The majority of individuals who participate begin this counseling voluntarily, meaning that they are not forced or coerced in any way.
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Family members who inquire about exit counseling will usually have initial meetings with an exit counselor. This counselor will usually prepare the family for the subsequent counseling sessions that may take place. They will also provide background information on cults in general and possibly the specific cult in question.
After the initial meetings, it is often the family's job to convince the cult member to meet with the counselor. It is important that the cult member enters exit counseling willingly. He should not be forced, coerced, or tricked. Many experts agree that forcing him will often cause him not to trust people who are not involved with the cult, or who he thinks of as outsiders.
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During the exit counseling sessions, an individual is also allowed to leave or take a break whenever he wants. Regardless of how erroneous they may seem to other people, his opinions are always respected as well. Counselors may try to educate the cult member on his specific cult, cults in general, or mind control tactics. In some cases, former cult members may even be brought in to speak with him. Based on the information provided to them, most cult members will then make a decision on whether to stay involved with the group or leave.
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If individuals choose to stay involved with the cult after exit counseling sessions, they are free to do so. Counselors will then work with the family members, teaching them the best ways to communicate with their loved one. For example, they must learn to be caring and non-judgmental. Otherwise, their loved one may feel even more alienated and decide against turning to his family for help if he ever decides to leave the cult.
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Deciding to leave can be one of the hardest decisions for a cult member to make. He may have problems adjusting to life outside of the cult. Some specific problems can include feelings of guilt or depression, problems making decisions, paranoia, or anxiety. Exit counseling can help these types of individuals learn or relearn how to live outside of a cult.
Tuesday, February 22, 2011
Counseling Services
Counseling Services
The Counseling Center is committed to providing a range of services intended to help students develop improved coping skills in order to address emotional, interpersonal and academic concerns. The Counseling Center provides individual, couples and group counseling, and all of these services are paid for through the Health Services Fee. The Counseling Center offers primarily short-term counseling, but we do provide referrals to the community when students could benefit from longer term services.
Making the Initial Appointment
Initial Appointments are made on a same-day basis by calling the Counseling Center (333.3704) any time after 7:50 a.m. These appointments tend to fill up quickly, and students are encouraged to call early on the day that they would like to meet with a counselor.
Your first appointment will provide you with an opportunity to talk confidentially with a counselor about your immediate concerns. Your counselor will talk with you about some of the reasons you scheduled the appointment and will evaluate what services or resources will be most helpful for you. Some students find that talking with a counselor once is sufficient to resolve the immediate concern. If further services would be beneficial, these will be discussed and a recommendation will be made by the counselor. These additional services may include resources offered by the Counseling Center or referral to another campus or community resource.
The Counseling Center also provides emergency consultations to students with urgent mental health concerns between 8:00 am and 5:00 pm, Monday through Friday. Please call 333-3704 if you have an immediate need to meet with a counselor. After 5:00 pm and on weekends, please contact the Crisis Line at 359-4141 to speak with a counselor.
Individual & Couples Counseling
The Counseling Center has a diverse professional staff that works from a variety of theoretical perspectives. We provide individual, couples’ and group counseling focused on a range of clinical issues. Students come to the Counseling Center for a wide variety of reasons – a list of the most common presenting concerns is at the Student Concerns page. Many of the students who come into the Center are experiencing academic difficulties, including time management issues, concentration problems, lack of motivation, or questions about study skills. Some students are having trouble adjusting to college life or are having conflict with a roommate or their parents. Many of our clients have a specific concern related to depression, anxiety, alcohol or substance abuse, eating concerns or a similar clinical issue.
Group Counseling
Group counseling is often the most beneficial option for many student concerns. Group counseling is a form of psychotherapy that usually involves 4-10 clients and 1 or 2 experienced group therapists. Most therapy groups meet every week at the same time for 1-2 hours. During that time, the members of the group discuss the issues that are concerning them and offer each other support and feedback. Interpersonal interaction is highly valued and encouraged. Group counseling may be particularly useful for students who are having difficulties in their relationships or who want to learn about themselves and their connections to other people. Group counseling is the only long-term treatment option offered at the Counseling Center. For more information, please see the groups page.
Referrals for Private Therapy
If concerns exceed the scope of the Center’s short term counseling focus, or if recommended resources are not available within the University, your counselor will refer you to private therapy or other appropriate community resources. The cost of such therapy is not included in your student fees. Student Health Insurance, or other comparable health insurance plans, may reimburse part of the cost of private therapy. Your counselor will discuss additional possible options to help defray costs if a referral for private therapy is made.
The Counseling Center is committed to providing a range of services intended to help students develop improved coping skills in order to address emotional, interpersonal and academic concerns. The Counseling Center provides individual, couples and group counseling, and all of these services are paid for through the Health Services Fee. The Counseling Center offers primarily short-term counseling, but we do provide referrals to the community when students could benefit from longer term services.
Making the Initial Appointment
Initial Appointments are made on a same-day basis by calling the Counseling Center (333.3704) any time after 7:50 a.m. These appointments tend to fill up quickly, and students are encouraged to call early on the day that they would like to meet with a counselor.
Your first appointment will provide you with an opportunity to talk confidentially with a counselor about your immediate concerns. Your counselor will talk with you about some of the reasons you scheduled the appointment and will evaluate what services or resources will be most helpful for you. Some students find that talking with a counselor once is sufficient to resolve the immediate concern. If further services would be beneficial, these will be discussed and a recommendation will be made by the counselor. These additional services may include resources offered by the Counseling Center or referral to another campus or community resource.
The Counseling Center also provides emergency consultations to students with urgent mental health concerns between 8:00 am and 5:00 pm, Monday through Friday. Please call 333-3704 if you have an immediate need to meet with a counselor. After 5:00 pm and on weekends, please contact the Crisis Line at 359-4141 to speak with a counselor.
Individual & Couples Counseling
The Counseling Center has a diverse professional staff that works from a variety of theoretical perspectives. We provide individual, couples’ and group counseling focused on a range of clinical issues. Students come to the Counseling Center for a wide variety of reasons – a list of the most common presenting concerns is at the Student Concerns page. Many of the students who come into the Center are experiencing academic difficulties, including time management issues, concentration problems, lack of motivation, or questions about study skills. Some students are having trouble adjusting to college life or are having conflict with a roommate or their parents. Many of our clients have a specific concern related to depression, anxiety, alcohol or substance abuse, eating concerns or a similar clinical issue.
Group Counseling
Group counseling is often the most beneficial option for many student concerns. Group counseling is a form of psychotherapy that usually involves 4-10 clients and 1 or 2 experienced group therapists. Most therapy groups meet every week at the same time for 1-2 hours. During that time, the members of the group discuss the issues that are concerning them and offer each other support and feedback. Interpersonal interaction is highly valued and encouraged. Group counseling may be particularly useful for students who are having difficulties in their relationships or who want to learn about themselves and their connections to other people. Group counseling is the only long-term treatment option offered at the Counseling Center. For more information, please see the groups page.
Referrals for Private Therapy
If concerns exceed the scope of the Center’s short term counseling focus, or if recommended resources are not available within the University, your counselor will refer you to private therapy or other appropriate community resources. The cost of such therapy is not included in your student fees. Student Health Insurance, or other comparable health insurance plans, may reimburse part of the cost of private therapy. Your counselor will discuss additional possible options to help defray costs if a referral for private therapy is made.
Addiction Counsellor
Addictions can allow people a temporary escape from their problems, and can develop from many activities; alcohol, drugs, eating, gambling, shopping, sex and use of the internet.
Stigma surrounds the word addiction which is an inability to stop repetitive behaviour in spite of the harmful consequences.
Research shows that millions of people suffer from an addiction of some sort. For many their craving or impulse offers a short-term escape from the realities of their life and is often used to deal with depression or anxiety. For most, the long term consequences bring extra guilt and shame which eventually create an increasingly destructive cycle drawing in family and friends.
Addictions are often associated with activities that initially bring pleasure and release from everyday life and pressures. Chemicals produced in the brain which encourage us to partake in activities and enjoy the ‘highs’ and ‘satisfactions’ are usually stimulated by these activities. The human brain uses dopamine, produced when we fall in love and similar to cocaine, to motivate; and endorphins, what we feel after vigorous exercise and similar to heroin, to reward behaviour.
When life is empty and these chemicals are not naturally present; when we are low or depressed, the tendency to addiction can increase. Stimulation and reward are often ingredients of addiction: drugs, eating, gambling, shopping and sex all produce highs which need to be repeated. The following lows increase the feelings of hopelessness.
A skilled counsellor can help the client to start to understand their emotional needs and face the realities of life with more hope of addressing the underlying problems attached to their mis use of alcohol and other drugs. Again, research would indicate that the Bio/Psycho/Social Model of therapy is most beneficial in addressing a client’s mis use.
Stigma surrounds the word addiction which is an inability to stop repetitive behaviour in spite of the harmful consequences.
Research shows that millions of people suffer from an addiction of some sort. For many their craving or impulse offers a short-term escape from the realities of their life and is often used to deal with depression or anxiety. For most, the long term consequences bring extra guilt and shame which eventually create an increasingly destructive cycle drawing in family and friends.
Addictions are often associated with activities that initially bring pleasure and release from everyday life and pressures. Chemicals produced in the brain which encourage us to partake in activities and enjoy the ‘highs’ and ‘satisfactions’ are usually stimulated by these activities. The human brain uses dopamine, produced when we fall in love and similar to cocaine, to motivate; and endorphins, what we feel after vigorous exercise and similar to heroin, to reward behaviour.
When life is empty and these chemicals are not naturally present; when we are low or depressed, the tendency to addiction can increase. Stimulation and reward are often ingredients of addiction: drugs, eating, gambling, shopping and sex all produce highs which need to be repeated. The following lows increase the feelings of hopelessness.
A skilled counsellor can help the client to start to understand their emotional needs and face the realities of life with more hope of addressing the underlying problems attached to their mis use of alcohol and other drugs. Again, research would indicate that the Bio/Psycho/Social Model of therapy is most beneficial in addressing a client’s mis use.
MARRIAGE & FAMILY COUNSELING
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When considering marriage counseling, it's difficult not to wonder whether seeing a marriage counselor will actually work. This article provides some objective information based on data obtained from a national survey of marriage and family counselors and their clients. Also presented are several interesting opinions provided by individuals who have actually been through marriage counseling and were asked to comment on whether or not seeing a marriage counselor proved effective in helping their relationship.
An honest marriage counselor would agree that the motivation of a couple may be the single most important factor in determining the success of marriage counseling. It's unlikely that even a brilliant counselor would be able to save a marriage where one spouse has already decided upon a divorce, and a mediocre marriage counselor can probably help a couple who are utterly committed towards making their marriage work. With this in mind, research has been made in an effort to determine, on a more scientific level, the effectiveness of couples counseling.
In an article published by Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, clients of marriage and family counselors from 15 different states reported on their experience with counseling. The findings indicated that marriage and family counselors treated a wide range of issues in relatively short-term fashion, couple and family therapy are briefer than individual therapy, and that client satisfaction and functional improvement are quite high.
[*] Specifically, of clients from 526 marriage and family counselors in 15 different states:
98.1% rated services good or excellent
97.1% got the kind of help they desired
91.2% were satisfied with the amount of help they received
93% said they were helped in dealing more effectively with problems
94.3% would return to the same therapist in the future
96.9% would recommend their therapist to a friend
97.4% were generally satisfied with the service they received
63.4% reported improved physical health
54.8% reported improvement in functioning at work
73.7% indicated improvement in children’s behavior
58.7% showed improvement in children’s school performance
[*] Excerpted from "Clinical Practice Patterns of Marriage and Family Therapists: A National Survey of Therapists and Their Clients", Journal of Marital and Family Therapy--Volume 22, No. 1
While the above study provides raw data that supports the effectiveness of marriage and family counseling, a very interesting discussion on the question "Does Couples Counseling Work" from a public forum devoted to this topic offers a less clinical, but still positive view. Based on what seems to be a very honest and frank discussion among couples "who've been there," the answer to the question of whether or not marriage counseling is effective is a positive one. Read these posts on the Berkley Parents Network.
Regardless of the studies and opinions which seem to support the effectiveness of marriage / couples counseling, there are those who question it's effectiveness. An article on the about.com portal, had this to say:
The science of marital counseling is being studied in great detail these days. Research is showing that it is not as effective as people think, that women seem to get more from it than men, and that it might not have a lasting effect on the couple's marriage.
What type of couple gets the most from couple therapy? The answer is young, non-sexist, still in love, open couples.
Which couples receive the least from therapy? Some factors that can make couple therapy unsuccessful include couples who wait too long before seeking help, and often one or the other is set on getting a divorce and is closed to any suggestions that may save the marriage.
Excerpted from the marriage.about.com portal
Unfortunately, the data supporting the above-mentioned research is not specifically cited in the article. The article seems to imply that couples who seek counseling because they want their relationship to work are more likely to succeed with marriage counseling than are those who enter into counseling with the (perhaps hidden) truth that they already want out.
When considering marriage counseling, it's difficult not to wonder whether seeing a marriage counselor will actually work. This article provides some objective information based on data obtained from a national survey of marriage and family counselors and their clients. Also presented are several interesting opinions provided by individuals who have actually been through marriage counseling and were asked to comment on whether or not seeing a marriage counselor proved effective in helping their relationship.
An honest marriage counselor would agree that the motivation of a couple may be the single most important factor in determining the success of marriage counseling. It's unlikely that even a brilliant counselor would be able to save a marriage where one spouse has already decided upon a divorce, and a mediocre marriage counselor can probably help a couple who are utterly committed towards making their marriage work. With this in mind, research has been made in an effort to determine, on a more scientific level, the effectiveness of couples counseling.
In an article published by Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, clients of marriage and family counselors from 15 different states reported on their experience with counseling. The findings indicated that marriage and family counselors treated a wide range of issues in relatively short-term fashion, couple and family therapy are briefer than individual therapy, and that client satisfaction and functional improvement are quite high.
[*] Specifically, of clients from 526 marriage and family counselors in 15 different states:
98.1% rated services good or excellent
97.1% got the kind of help they desired
91.2% were satisfied with the amount of help they received
93% said they were helped in dealing more effectively with problems
94.3% would return to the same therapist in the future
96.9% would recommend their therapist to a friend
97.4% were generally satisfied with the service they received
63.4% reported improved physical health
54.8% reported improvement in functioning at work
73.7% indicated improvement in children’s behavior
58.7% showed improvement in children’s school performance
[*] Excerpted from "Clinical Practice Patterns of Marriage and Family Therapists: A National Survey of Therapists and Their Clients", Journal of Marital and Family Therapy--Volume 22, No. 1
While the above study provides raw data that supports the effectiveness of marriage and family counseling, a very interesting discussion on the question "Does Couples Counseling Work" from a public forum devoted to this topic offers a less clinical, but still positive view. Based on what seems to be a very honest and frank discussion among couples "who've been there," the answer to the question of whether or not marriage counseling is effective is a positive one. Read these posts on the Berkley Parents Network.
Regardless of the studies and opinions which seem to support the effectiveness of marriage / couples counseling, there are those who question it's effectiveness. An article on the about.com portal, had this to say:
The science of marital counseling is being studied in great detail these days. Research is showing that it is not as effective as people think, that women seem to get more from it than men, and that it might not have a lasting effect on the couple's marriage.
What type of couple gets the most from couple therapy? The answer is young, non-sexist, still in love, open couples.
Which couples receive the least from therapy? Some factors that can make couple therapy unsuccessful include couples who wait too long before seeking help, and often one or the other is set on getting a divorce and is closed to any suggestions that may save the marriage.
Excerpted from the marriage.about.com portal
Unfortunately, the data supporting the above-mentioned research is not specifically cited in the article. The article seems to imply that couples who seek counseling because they want their relationship to work are more likely to succeed with marriage counseling than are those who enter into counseling with the (perhaps hidden) truth that they already want out.
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